Is it possible to be in love with two men at a time?
2006-12-17 13:21:13 · 26 answers · asked by h2gj87 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Actually Sarcastic Sid I wasn't the one that gave you thumbs down.
2006-12-17 15:57:39 · update #1
Don't listen to those people who are telling you to grow up, it is possible to be in love with two men. they are just misunderstanding the question. I had a boyfriend who I was in love with, but we broke up because we lived too far apart and it was too hard opn both of us to never see each other when we wanted to. Then I met someone new, who I also eventually fell in love with too. I was in love with both men for a while, and cried over it and prayed alot too.
Eventually I realized the second man was definitely who I was meant to be with. I still really care for the first guy a lot, and he also cares for me, but it wouldnt have worked out. It was so much different than just a crush. People who are prejudging your question and are telling you it is not possible, have just never experienced this before for themselves is all.
I would suggest asking God for help in making a descision, because you really can't have both guys. Good luck!
2006-12-17 13:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can LUST after two men at a time, or even a hundred men at a time...but you can't truly love them with an unconditional devoted kind of love. You can be married to the most wonderful man on the planet and still think that Brad Pitt is a hotty...you love your husband and lust Brad Pitt. There is a major difference...there is nothing wrong with lust as long as you are wise enough to control it and not rely on it. Love is not just a feeling, it's so much more than that, and lust is nothing more than a feeling. You need to realize which man you truly love, by whose side you will stand when he is sick or when he is in a bad mood, the one you will love forever even when his body is covered in wrinkles...and which man are you attracted to physically but would never give your life for?
2006-12-17 13:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Yul'ka 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry' but no and here is why. You can't love two men it will not work. In the end 1 man will get hurt because his feeling will run deeper than expected. He will get jealous. You will have to pick which one you want. If you can't they both will walk and when that happens you will pick the one that you love the most. Somebody gets hurt one way or the other.That's OK you can give me thumbs down if you want. One thing you can never say is nobody told me the truth.
2006-12-17 13:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it is not possible to be IN love with two men at the same time. However it is possible to simply love two men at the same time, there is a difference between being IN love and just loving someone. True love is developed between only two people at once, and it is a rare thing to fall In love anyway. So falling in True) love with to men at the same time is completely a false notion. The love that society loves to throw around like it's some sort of disease you catch is what I like to call BullShyt, and is a discrace to real love.
Love live life
-Candy
2006-12-17 13:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can.
Don't even fool yourself in thinking that you can't. Just remember, it is a different kind of love and possibly a different way of loving. However, if you are "IN LOVE" with both men, and sexually involved with both....you have a problem on your hands....LET THE PASSION make the decision for you in what you need to do.
You can't have them both! That is disaster waiting to happen.
Good luck!
2006-12-17 13:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kokomira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can LOVE two men at the same time but not BE IN LOVE. When you are IN LOVE, it's a whole different ballgame, totally different territory. Being IN LOVE does not happen every day and is truly one of life's great little mysteries/journeys. :)
2006-12-18 02:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-17 13:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to answer honestly, I believe that this is possible but in reality you can only be with one so you must eventually come to the decision of which one you would like to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-12-17 14:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Peace, Love, Gun<3☎ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and when the other one might be from your past it might mean you need to have a final goodbye so you can move on if its not a past fling and its some one new it could be because theres something about this person that you cant find in the other person.
2006-12-17 13:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i believe you can, but i guess the next question to ask yourself is are you gonna try loving them both at the SAME TIME?? That is where it gets a bit sticky...Good luck if this is your situation.
2006-12-17 13:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by NicNac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋