ok so i posted here like a month ago and i got great feedback about what to do about my ex i have another?

Question

ok so i have this ex who wont talk to me and decided that we needed to end our 1 year relationship before we both ended up hurt, and he decidid that he didn't love me within 4 hours and now after 5 months i love him with everything even though i dont want to anymore i want to hate him for everything he has put me through but he ended it without anyhting no fight arguement not even a differance of opinion there was just n reason to end it except maybe need of space we are 16 and 17(dont tell me were too young that wont help me) i just cant accept it becuz it doesnt make sense to ne1 not even to his parents so what im asking is why cant i move on from this? why after 5 months wont he talk to me? is there a reason for ne of this? my original was.. My boyfriend broke up with me and i dont understand why and how he really feels.. does he still love me?? help....to get more of an idea...i really need answers i have become sum1 i cant recinize i hate who i have become becauz if this break up!

Answer 1

It simply takes time to move on. But you need to actually decide to move on now. You've been hanging on with a faint hope that he might start talking to you again and maybe you could wriggle your way back into his life. It's been 5 months if he was interested in any sort of relationship, he would have spoken to you by now. The reason is that he's just not interested. It's time for you to let go and move on. Sitting around trying to make sense of it all isn't doing anything for you but keeping you stuck in the past.

Answer 2

ok i see you are torn about the break up but it has nothin to do with age. you are both two mature teens who can decide on your own. but anyways.. the reason i think is because he doenst sound like he is ready for a commited relationship he might be scared because of the lady you are. his fear is denial of his true feeling and the commitment. try to be patient with him trus no one but your heart. go for what your ♥ says. i say just try to see if he was scared of how great the things were goin between you 2 and tell him you were scared but aint want to lose him.