ok im 19 yrs old and im pregnent..me and my ex(kenton) just broke up cause we didnt get to see eachother and we meant online we live in 2 different states..well 2months after we broke up i found a guy named ryan .he is alot nicer than kenton anyways ryan got me pregnent about a week ago and now kenton is mad at me and keeps asking me back out..he keeps on saying he is gunna kill himself i still have feeling for him but i like ryan alot more than him..any suggestions on what i should do?
2006-12-17 12:01:04 · 15 answers · asked by staryeyes96 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about Kenton, if he really wanted to kill himself, he probably would have done it already. You have other priorities now, a baby. So if you like Ryan, then stay with him. It seems that Kenton is being childish, and you don't need that now. I wish you and the baby the best of luck.
2006-12-17 12:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Ryan did not get you pregnant. You allowed yourself to get pregnant. Have you told Ryan you are pregnant? You are obviously not married and now you must choose either to have an abortion which I do not recommend or choose to have the baby. If you haven't told Ryan you are pregnant you should because he has a right to know. If you keep the baby you have a responsibility to put the baby first above all else. If not, then put the baby up for adoption. The baby has a right to live you know. As for Kenton, he sounds as though he is desperate. If you wish to get back with him that is your choice but if not then don't concern yourself with him. You have choices that are not easy to make so I advise you to think carefully about your next move. Don't be so callous next time with your affections. You must be more mature in the future.
2006-12-17 12:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I cant make a decision, I write it all out. Which is pretty much what you just did. In fact, I think you've already made your decision. And you're just just wondering how strangers would decide.
Ryan is nicer
You like Ryan more
He's your baby's daddy
And I expect he lives where you live.
You met Kenton online
He lives 2 states away
You dont get to see him much
You broke up
He's mad at you
He's threatening to harm himself
Now that's 4 items which are POSITIVE vs 6 items that are NEGATIVE. That makes for an easy decision! ;)
2006-12-17 12:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well tellc Ryan what is going on and Tell kenton that ur just not into him as much as u were before and just be friends with him
2006-12-17 12:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a sympathy tactic. If you're really worried, next time he says it call the cops and tell them that you're worried he's going to harm himself. I'm sure he'll enjoy spending 48 hours with no shoelaces. You guys broke up and if he was really interested in being with you he would have tried to get back with you sooner. You should go with your feelings and stick with Ryan. If Kenton really cared for you, he would never put you in that position in the first place.
2006-12-17 12:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and warn them about kenton. Then get the hell out of there. It's not a good situation, and you cant get yourself caught up in it. It's not healthy or safe for you to be with a guy like that.
If you're pregnant with a guys kid, you should be with him, thats just my opinion, but I think you should at least give it a chance before you dump him for someone you dont like.
2006-12-17 12:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by MRose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morality never on your agenda, as well as birth control, venereal disease safe guards....sweetheart you are only 19 and setting yourself up for a disaster drama life and old age by 40. Which boy is not the issue - being pregnant is. Responsibility for a new human life is now in you. What are you going to offer that child? A life from man to man, welfare, and a future like yours? Surely there is some responsible adult in your life - a pastor, a teacher, someone mature who can give you some solid advice on how to get your life, values, issues.... addressed.
2006-12-17 12:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay w/your baby daddy and tell Kenton to move on and get a life.
2006-12-17 12:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with ryan. because u can see him and ur having his baby. u also dont want to be involved with a guy thats gonna "kill himself" over u.
2006-12-17 12:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋