Is it possible to like a guy and not want to date him? I know a guy who has a really funny personality and can make anyone laugh. I like him for that and love to be anywhere near him. I get jealous when he's near other girls. The thing is I would probably never go out with him if he asked me out. Maybe I would, but the relationship would probably never work. I kinda don't know if he can ever be serious, since I only get to see the funny side of him, but why do I like him so much? I don't think I'm attracted to him physically, but he's ok. Is it just because he's funny that I like him so much? Would any girls go out with a guy that is constantly goofing off, makes them laugh, even if they don't believe he has a serious side?
2006-12-17 12:00:57 · 8 answers · asked by Ahhh....Me Time 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This situation kind of reminds me of a guy best frined of mine. Although there is no physical attraction i have the same feelings of jealousy, and attraction just thru his personality. Most of this has devloped because i trust him, and it's human nature 2distrust men almost always, upon dating. So, it seems as though you've found more qualities about him that u enjoy other than just his humore. maybe u just haven't realized it yet. Enjoy his company, if you're close friends he will almost always put u first or on a pedastool next 2 any other girl he flirts or conversates with. Don't initiate something you're not sure of just because u fear some1 else stealing him away & depriving you of your happiness, thats not fair 2 him. But at the same time, some of the best relationships start off as friendship. The things you're not sure about now, u will most likely learn 2 appreciate along with the qualities u already love about him. When u sincerely care 4 some1, you accept them flaws and all. Follow your instinct, if u think this is an opportunity then don't leave yourself wondering "what might have been" Look past what u see on the surface, dont be shallow. Your heart will guide u
2006-12-17 12:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Trinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I'm assuming that you are young, therefore he is young. I was that 'funny' guy in high school and to be honest I still am, but ppl are complex. Just b/c he's funny in social settings doesn't mean that he can't be serious. The only way you will ever find out is to get to know him and that doesn't necessarily mean dating. Get to be his friend and see how he thinks, how is he in one-on-one situations? The problem is w/you at this point. It's a cliche but don't judge a book by it's cover, open it up and then make your decision.
2006-12-17 12:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex was always funny, always knew what to say, made jokes, fun and energetic..........problem is he would "act" serious about serious matters, but it was all fake, cause he was so funny and easy going, he wasnt serious about the serious stuff. Know what I mean? so it has its ups and downs.
2006-12-17 12:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? every body farts. what's extra involving is that you just could pay attention to what used to be supposed to be a individual second after which be judgmental approximately it!! Wouldn't YOU be dissatisfied in case your boyfriend heard you fart after which sat round considering how gross you have been? develop up!!
2016-09-03 17:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably wouldn't take him serious even when he is serious due to his funny personality.
2006-12-17 12:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will live a lot longer if you are with someone who can laugh at the world.
2006-12-17 12:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by tim b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in denial because your 4th line says it all. "I get jealous when he's near other girls."
2006-12-17 12:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you like him, but are afraid what other people think of you
2006-12-17 12:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋