Im 19 male and unhappy with my apperance, I have spots, a little overweight, although not tremendasly, just need to louse maybe a stone and my eyebrows are getting overgrown a little messy.. and what can I do to get the girls like meybe at least looking at me!? what hairgel as well looks good as I use gel and it makes it horribly untextured!
2006-12-17 12:00:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. you need to have confidence because if you don't have confidence in yourself no one is going to want to talk to you.
2.you need to fix your hair or get a hair cut.
3. you can just start exercising so you will feel different in yourself.
2006-12-17 12:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarding the overweight you're saying you have, that is a slight problem that you can solve it in matter of no time, either by going to a gym or doing some exercise everyday. About the spots and the eyebrows then I suggest you go to see a beauty therapist or beautician and I'm sure that he/she will find the solution. Regarding the hair gel you're using I think that you should go and talk to a hairdresser and ask him/her which is the best one for you. Hope it helps my friend and Good Luck
2006-12-17 18:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with what you have & try to make the most of it. Sounds like you dont have much confidence.
If want to loose a couple of pounds take up a sport, do exercise you will enjoy, join a gym etc
Get a new hair cutt for a new look ask your barber for advice on styles and gels etc
Your eye brows...well you could pluck them your self...or go to a mens spa and pay someone else to do it. That goes for the spots etc too they could give you advice etc.
It is all about confidence though.
Good luck. PEACE.
2006-12-17 12:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u could go to the doctors for the spots. I'm sure when you get into your mid 20's they will go by themselves anyway. You could go to the gym and give yourself some confidence. The eyebrows are easy to sort out, just trim them. Get some shockwave gel, don't use too much, a little bit will do through your hair. I got a link for fhm, that should give you some style tips, and there's a bit to show you how to pull! Anyway...You shouldn't worry so much, women love confident people. When you are not thinking about it, you will catch someones eye being yourself. Women aren't as much into a mans looks as men are with women. I don't like a man to be too well groomed, I like a man to be a man. Sunbeds and facial hair trimmed in a pattern doesn't do it for me. Just be yourself and you wil find someone.
2006-12-17 12:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spots are a part of teen years. Hell I'm 28 and I still get one or two. Get into exercise, it'll shift pounds, make you feel better and more confident about yourself and help you meet people (girls) Pluck your eyebrows if you must, but dont overdo it and go all paris hilton. Ditch the hair gel completely and go natural, it looks better and feels better than running your fingers through a grease field. Be happy, smile, try and relax, dont be needy and just get out there and chat to them. Girls will go for a mediocre looking but really cool guy over a preening self obsessed tosser 8 times out of ten. The ones that dont arent worth your trouble.
2006-12-17 12:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she is insecure. If she is below the age of 23 then she's in all likelihood going to be this variety for a protracted time to come returned. you have 2 ideas. a million) be very affected person together with her. forget approximately approximately her while she critisises you (tell her you could pass and unquestionably go away!) only respond to her while she's candy, except you truthfully tangled up. wherein case, appologise. you will additionally could be certain you compliment her in many cases (a minimum of as quickly as an afternoon and not for an identical concern) and constantly assure her which you like her. yet do no longer over say it. 2) unload her and circulate on. i be responsive to that 2 looks like the less difficult way, yet in case you have been together with her for awhile now you could nicely be surprisingly linked. only you could verify for helpful good success
2016-12-18 15:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lift weights, eat healthy, learn how to dance, go to a stylist to get a good haircut and eyebrow shaping, get a manicure, dress impeccably, have a great sense of humor, walk talk with your shoulders back, be picky in who you want, play hard to get, be confident in yourself and the women will come after you.
2006-12-17 17:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm u can start by goin to gym to do work outs then after that maybe u shud try pluck ur eyebrows bit painful wen u first do it but after a few times u dont feel the pain anymore :p
2006-12-17 12:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by it_wasnt_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a health club, that will help with the weight and help you build muscles.
Get a hair cut and have them take care of your eyebrows too.
It will take some time but you will improve all around.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-17 12:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself, no matter what. You are special, unique and you have some talents others don't have. Use them, be proud of them, you are special! That is the most important lesson I can teach you about life :)
Take care mate!
2006-12-17 12:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋