I think in this liberal world it's okay to be still attracted towards your ex even after the break-up and even if you are in a new relation. The current spouse must understand that. What do you think?
Ladies and gentleman: by ex I only mean Ex-girlfriend/Ex-boyfriend and NO marital ties.
2006-12-17 11:38:02 · 5 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is natural to have feelings for an ex for a time after the break up....
But I would not get involved in a new relationship if I still had these feelings. Being still involved emotionally means that you are not available emotionally to your new partner. Plus I would not expect any partner of mine to accept that I had 'feelings' for an ex....it isnt good karma!!! You cant expect a partner to actually settle for this....sham of a relationship, because should your ex return with an offer of renewing the former relationship then these felings will allow you to rekindle something that should not be.....thus I think you should detach emotionally from a former partner before starting something new!!!
2006-12-17 11:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Neil M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no, certainly no longer get in touch alongside with your friends ex's. this could be an entire breach of friendship and to no longer metion some shady s*** adult adult males come a dime a dozen, a properly pal is tough to discover, have faith me I comprehend. How could desire to you love it if she did this to you? he's maximum ordinarily playing a suggestions activity with you besides, like making an attempt to hire you to come back her. who knows of they emerge as back jointly finally this, by utilising way of saying which you basically have been the reason they somewhat smash up up, because of the fact you "secretly" favourite him. Then develop, you're lonely. without properly pal or goo intercourse. basically placed out of your suggestions this theory completely, it may desire to somewhat backfire. I severely propose you do a depiction of your self-worth and judgement of individual. i could now no longer want you to be my "pal" no procedures. Sorry it relatively is the certainty. uncooked and uncut.
2016-10-05 10:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its ok. its the same way with me. just make sure you get over your ex.
2006-12-17 11:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its ok as long as you dont act on it and dont make it too big of a deal.....your always gonna be attracted to other people, its human nature
2006-12-17 11:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ollie B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I certainly wouldn't admit it if I were you.
2006-12-17 11:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋