My boyfriend is really sweet and he has never given me a reason to distrust him but I saw a boy that looked like my boyfriend from the back but he had a hat on and my boyfriend has never worn a hat around me so I don't know, but like I said I only saw him from the back but anyway this boy was hugging a girl from the back and he was where my boyfriend's grandma stays and then my boyfriend called me ten minutes later from his grandma's house and I asked him what he had on and if he owned a white hat and he said he does not a own on and the clothes didn't match what the other boy had on. I know how my man feels about me he had been trying to get with me for a year before we started going out, so its obvious how he feels and he says he is not a cheater and he is not that kind of guy and that he has been cheated on and he wouldn't put anybody thrugh that kind of pain especially somebody he really cares about, but I don't know whether to believe that or not.
2006-12-17 11:23:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex really messed my heart up by cheating on me and I really loved him so it hurt really bad and I know it's not fair to blame my boyfriend for what me ex did but I can't help think who he is with when we're not together or on the phone. And I haven't heard from him in two days so I'm really worried. Please help me to know how I can get over my trust issues.
2006-12-17 11:26:03 · update #1
You should probably let it go. Why would he feel the need to lie about what he was wearing unless you told him up front the reason you were asking?
All men are not alike and you need to let go of the past hurt. It takes time and energy to maintain hurt feelings. You need to decide that you are through allowing the past to hurt you, let go, and then move on.
2006-12-17 11:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should begin by calling him and setting up a time to sit and talk. Let him know that you are having serious trust issues because of your "EX". He should be able to understand that. I believe that if he really cares about you he should be able to sit and talk about it. If you can not get him to look you in the face and say that he has not and will not "cheat on you" then move on to someone else. You need to calm down and begin thinking more clearly about this. Until you have been married you really should not be too frantic over this. YOU are worth more than that!! Why don't you get several friends together this week and make some popcorn, watch a movie, and play some cards. This would be fun and get you calmed down a little bit. Have a great holiday.
Eds
2006-12-17 11:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust him he sounds like he really does like u.. but if u should ever see something like that again then u should question him..otherwise dont worry to much
2006-12-17 11:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by time is precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋