This question is so cliche but, I havent been in the dating scene for a while, due to a loooong relationship. So how many is appropriate, and is moderation of alcohol not to sleezy or sort of cheating?
2006-12-17 11:17:33 · 17 answers · asked by Matt D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alcohol might expedite things. It really depends on the situation...how you two feel about each other. I try to wait at least a month or two of dating exclusively. That usually weeds out the guys that only want to get in your pants, because they usually cant wait that long.
2006-12-17 11:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How ever many dates it takes you to be married to this person. You shouldn't have sex with someone until you are married. That way you know that if this person didn't have sex with you than you know that this person won't have sex with someone else other than you. You need to be faithful too. Those are the 2 keyes to a loooong relationship and possibly a long and happy marriage.
2006-12-17 11:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by XxXTaRaXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no definite answer on this. That all depends on if your both ready if she doesn't want to she will let you know. Moderation of alcohol is not sleezy it just looses people up so they are not as nervous . Just don't be to anxious or to obnoxious be yourself . Good luck!
2006-12-17 11:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by simple one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't agree to have sex with a guy until we have been together in a serious relationship for at least three months. Alcohol is nice to loosen yourself up a bit, but you should still be looking for something serious if you're going to become intimate with a woman you're dating, because she's probably thinking serious if you two decide to have intercourse.
2006-12-17 11:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not clear on the meaning of the second part of your question regarding "moderation of alcohol". Perhaps you could add details to your question to clarify it.
As to the first part, there is no hard and fast rule. It will depend on readiness on the part of each person.
2006-12-17 11:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol is the greatest social lubricant... and it's different for everyone. Know your standards and stick to them. I have friends who just drag off from the bar, I have friends who want to wait until marriage, and then there's others who just wait until they're emotionally ready to share themselves with another person. It all depends on you - but know what you want before getting back into the game.
2006-12-17 11:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question ... then its going to a looonngg time... unless your into sleazy mmmm really depends on the person, some people want to hit the sheets right away, others want to wait and get to know you...depends alot on age as well
2006-12-17 11:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say at least 2 months of dating...or 5-6 dates..
2006-12-17 11:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say 5 dates before anything intimate, this way you will both know if it is more than just sexual. Alcohol can fog your judgement, moderation is the best thing.
2006-12-17 11:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by monz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something you have to figure out for yourself.. I mean are you looking for serious or casual.. If you are looking for serious then you should give yourself sometime to get to know the person and then make sure you are comfortable when it's time to do it!!!
2006-12-17 11:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋