Let me give you the 101 in flirting.... Don't!!!!!!!!! Just be yourself and see if the person you have interest in is digging you.. The reason why I say don't flirt is because it is always rewarding to have a guy seek out your attention instaed. That way I can shoot them down when I am tired of dealing with them because hey your the one who went after me in the first place remember!! Example of that is this guy I met at my job one day. He came in and we talked all of like an hour about just life in general and yes I was digging him but when he left he asked if he could call me over the weekend. Well needless to say I gave him the digits and honey he called me 32 times in one weekend. I decided after the like 5th call not to answer his call because he turned out to be a pest. To make a long story short he came back to my job and ended up telling me I was pretty but I wasn't all dat since I was ignoring his calls but I shut him up real quick when I told him know I don't think I am all that but you do or you wouldn't have called me 32 times!!! He walked out looking so stupid with nothing to say. Since then he contacted me at my job just to say hi then I had the pleasure of telling him I AM NOT INTERESTED!!! that felt better then good.. The moral to my experience is just to say that it's ok to flirt but let him flirt with you that way if you have to give him the red light or end up not liking him you can tell him to kick rocks and not feel bad at all about doing it or atleast I didn't!!!! Then again since your boyfriend now I say you should say something he wouldn't expect you to say about how he looks or how you feel when you are with him.. Oh and try not to laugh or anything when you do it even if you feel alittle out of place at first just keep at it. It'll work out
2006-12-17 11:12:41
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answered by Jazzie 2
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If you were friends for 3 years...its going to be awkward for a VERY long time...If not forever....I mean think about it...
Trust me...And if you want to flirt you cant get advice from off of here, you have to do whats right for the moment. And be natural
2006-12-17 11:07:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Flirting is done to attract people that you do not all ready know. Your boyfriend all ready likes you as you are. Do not do anything different. No need to flirt here.
If you break up someday, then most people flirt with eye contact. You see a guy looking at you and if you are interested, you look at him and smile. He should be around for a visit soon after that.
2006-12-17 11:04:58
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answered by ignoramus 7
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For me flirting comes naturally, but as far as you and him go, it might be even harder because you were friends before for so long. Flirting is much easier with a stranger for me.
2006-12-17 11:05:49
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answered by Anonymous
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You can give him looks, little random half smiles, go with the flow always.... even if you weren't bestfriends first it's still awkward.
2006-12-17 11:03:47
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answered by deppfreak6963 2
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DONT THINK TOO HARD ABOUT IT EVERYONE KNOWS HOW TO FLIRT BUT YOURE GETTING NERVOUS CUZ YOURE THINKING TOO MUCH ABOUT IT. JUST LET YOURSELF GO AND IT WILL BE COOL. ALSO SURPRISE HIM WITH LITTLE KISSES ON THE CHEEK FIRST.
2006-12-17 11:05:07
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answered by steveabilly 2
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laugh a lot and look at him in the eyes all the time
2006-12-17 11:04:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Send me your email and I will teach you how.
2006-12-17 11:05:05
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answered by Louis K 4
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Jump on the guy.
Haha, no.
Just be yourself.
BE YOURSELF
2006-12-17 11:06:20
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answered by Kelly 2
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smile at him, touch him alot, kiss him. make cute faces at him.
2006-12-17 11:05:32
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answered by coko823 3
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