I found out about his so called friend. He says that she just takes him places while I am at work. I made him call her. She said that they have known each other for 3 years and there is nothing going on. He sold his car in August but the number is on his phone bill in June. and July. THey talk for more than 19 min. Can you help me figure this one out. If u need more detail just ask
2006-12-17 10:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Strawberry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have not been dating for a long time, I suggest you end your relationship. Even though he might not have done anything wrong, you have doubts and everything he will do from now on is suspect. Doubt and suspicion about your mate is absolute poison to a relationship. Usually, your gut is correct. However, if you choose to stay with him, your mind will be working furiously to catch him in doing something wrong, and that is no way for a relationship to be.
2006-12-17 10:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There more than likely is nothing going on. Over half of my friends are guys, and people always suspect things that are not true. However, if you truly do think he's lying to you about him and this girl, then listen up. Insist to meet this girl and see how they act when they're together. But don't take things too seriously and over dramatic. Just because they greet each other with a hug doesn't mean he is cheating on you. After meeting her, then ask him again if there's anything going on between them. If he pulls at his pants, looks at the floor, pulls his knee up, fools with his hair, stares at the walls, or sits as straight as a board, then he's probably not telling the truth.
2006-12-17 18:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you definitely have some reasons to think he's not telling the truth. I think that if that's how it is with him and this friend then you need to corner him about it. In a relationship, you have the obligation to tell the whole truth to your partner and you have the right to demand the whole truth from them. If you're wholly truthful to him then you have the right to demand this.
2006-12-17 18:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ilmari_Karjalainen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has nothing to hide,there would be no need to hide anything from you,unless he knows you will react badly,i wouldn't be happy if my other half had someone taking him places.confront him and tell him your not happy,but us women tend to have a sixth sense when it comes to something not being quite right-go with your instinct and good luck
2006-12-17 18:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it.... especially if you have that gut feeling and its there but your choosing to ignore it..
2006-12-17 18:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by sunny428holdat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋