heartbreak?

Question

theres this guy i have knowed for a few years and a really like him as more than a friend but i am very shy and dont know where to tell him or not incase he doesnt fell the same even tho we flirt together i dont know whether hes just havin a laugth and i dont want to spoil or friend ship but i really like him

Answer 1

Its like i wrote this question myself, i know exactly how you feel babe!!
I know you say you don't want to spoil your friendship but ask yourself this, can you really live with this love you have for him building up inside you and yet never try to find out if anything could have happened with you both??
It sounds like there is a good chance he feels the same and even if he doesn't then I'm sure you both could be adult enough to stay friends. I know its hard because you are shy but you have tell him how you feel because life is way too short to keep putting barriers between you and the things you want.
Goodluck babe xxx

Answer 2

im in the same exact position here too! it really hurts u doesnt it! its really hard to tell him tht u like himbecause u'll fear ur friendship will get ruined if u tell him! i feel so sorry for u! i dont know wat to tell u... um... around a year ago i told a guy tht i like him more than a friend. he's still a good friend of mine after tht. tht shows tht he's a true friend! and hey we still constantly flirt with each other! but i had another friend and he found out from my friend tht i liked him, long story short we're not friends anymore. he wasnt a true friend thts for sure! so my point in boring u by my story is tht it depends on the guy really if he was a true friend he'll think well of u liking him and if he doesnt like u back he'll jst say it and ur friendship wouldnt be ruined but if he wasnt a true friend and completely ignores u after u tell him, u wouldnt want to get with him anyway. now would u?! if he was a good friend thts worth keeping he wont ignore u and ruin ur friendship! goodluck!

Answer 3

Tell him you like him and hope for the best, better than never knowing and better than if he thinks you dont like him and moves on! Get over ur shyness, send him a text or a letter if ur too shy. But you need to do something now. Or it really will be heartache!!

Answer 4

If you're shy, write him a little letter telling him you like him. Also include you understand if he just wants to be friends. I know how it can be to be afraid to tell a guy friend how you feel about them, because you don't want it to ruin your friendship if he isn't interested. But just do that, and see what happens, I'm sure he won't be rude about it!





Krazy Libra

Answer 5

If he is a true friend, you won't spoil what you have. i don't think you have anything to lose in telling him how you feel. You never know, he might be feeling the same way (hopefully!) x

Answer 6

Just ask him would he or have he ever thought about being in a relationship with you? And if he answers correctly then go for it. And by correctly I mean by him saying yes.

Answer 7

Eh ?

Krazy Libra.' Write him a letter' ! This girl can't form a sentence. How would he know what she is saying? She is illiterate.

Answer 8

Try to find a spot where you can talk to him in private, or just call him (if you have his #).

Perhaps you could be like, "Look....I kind of like you more than a friend."

Answer 9

make a joke out of it and see how he responds,because if he does feel the same, your wasting time you could be together,the best relationships start out as friendships..good luck

Answer 10

Just tell him geez its not like hes gonna stop talkin to you if he doesnt like you. I like this gal and she knows that i like ehr and shes actin normal wit me.