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2006-12-17 10:05:19 · 7 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Your daughter told you about these two guys who come up behind her and feel her up many times every day.Would you believe her even if the guys(who are sons of your friends) seemed really sweet?? What would you do??
2006-12-17 10:06:48 · update #1
Her friend(who is dating one of the guys) told you that she is making this up. She says that guys hate gymnasts and would give up on a girl after she turned them down. What would you do??
2006-12-17 10:10:28 · update #2
She doesn't want a huge scandal b/c one of the boys is the mayors son.
They are all 15.
2006-12-17 10:11:20 · update #3
why would your daughter lie about it? i know a lot people that seem sweet but they're really not.
2006-12-17 10:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mandi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why wouldn't you believe your own child? Especially about something as important as this? If you've had problems with her lying in the past about important matters, then just tell her that you're calling the police to let them handle the matter. If she is lying, then she won't want you to do this in order to keep the truth from coming out, but if she is telling the truth, then she'll "need" you to call the cops before she gets raped. It shouldn't matter that these boys belong to your friends, what they are doing is wrong and they need to realize that there are consequences.
2006-12-17 22:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If there are guys that are feeling her up, she could get raped. You posed that your gf was raped, and that you were worried about her. Why aren't you worried about your daughter who is being felt up by some guys? That could lead to some pretty bad things (if it's not just a joke by the guys or them just being mean). Believe her, and try to help.
2006-12-17 18:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES i always believe children we they talk or tell about people being sexually abused. KIDS DO NOT lie about sexual abuse.. Talk to the boys and tell them if they don't stop you are talking to their parents and the police. and if they don't stop do exactly that. Good friends or not it is uncalled for!
CALL the police and let them deal with it . Just because he is the mayors son doesn't mean it is okay and it doesn't mean he can get away with it.
2006-12-17 18:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok if these are the kids of your friends, the police should not be nessicery yet.
tell your friends what their kids are doing, let them deal with it and i am sure it will stop and their should be no need for the police.
2006-12-17 18:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you believe your daughter.. you should believe what your daughter said.. do not go to another person and ask her that..
2006-12-17 18:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by babyg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the day off with a camcorder...follow first hand.
2006-12-17 18:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋