We have broken up and got back together at least 15 times in the 2 years we have known each other. I catch her in a lie about other guys so I breakup only to let her talk me into comming back to her. We brokeup last night after I found out she lied about contacting her ex-boyfriend. What do I do when she comes around with her voodoo next time she wants me back?
2006-12-17 09:17:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your CRAZY, thats why she keeps doing it! she know that no matter how much she hurts you, you will always forgive her and take her back. So knowing that she is going to do whatever she wants and walk all over you and make a fool out of you. BECAUSE you do nothing about it!
STOP taking her back, you can do better. She does not respect you.
2006-12-17 09:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's broke and you can't fix it, get a new one. Unless you like the break up to make up thing. But if she lied once and you found out what makes you thing she won't do it again. Bottom line: Take charge, and check her a** to the side lines, and tell her the voodoo spell has been broken, her chicken bones are old, green is the new black magic. It's time to upgrade, move up to the major's, and leave her miner a** behind.
2006-12-17 09:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by J J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her lies bother you so much, just stick to your decision and do NOT listen to her anymore. Tell her that you have gone through this too many times, you can't do it anymore and you don't trust her anymore.
I think that you also need to realise that you will be single for some time once you don't take her back. Don't be afraid of being alone for a while. It will actually be good for you and you will be able to get a better (hopefully!) girlfriend in the future.
2006-12-17 09:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Macgyver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't let go of her because maybe you think she is to hot and it's impossible for you to get another one like her? bottom of line I think she knows that she can play you as much and as long she desire..I hope you can find a way to break the relationship and convince yourself she is not the one you need and that the world is big enough..Maybe if you open your eyes to reality you will see that the girls like her are everywhere, so what you need is a better one, or maybe go on with your life till your ready for a relationship.Good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-17 09:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by kittybebe12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you want to be with her. You state that you have broken up with her at least 15 times...WOW that's a lot! If someone broke up with me only once...I would never get back together with them...EVER! It is you....you need to stop taking her back.
2006-12-17 09:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you go find another lady friend to keep you company, My guess is your afraid to be alone since you've been with her for so long... So find another female, and hopefully yah ex will get the message
2006-12-17 09:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Uche Wally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who looks even better than her and make sure shes there next time your girl comes over. See how she likes it.
Or, put your foot down.
Say its over and move on
2006-12-17 09:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by 12ated12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you will stop taking her back when you really get sick and tired of her using you for a doormat. she is probably only coming back to you because the other guys don't want her. grow some b**** and stop the crap because she can only do to you what you allow. good luck
2006-12-17 09:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to move on. What are you trying to do give yourself an ulcer with all that drama?
2006-12-17 09:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop drooling over someone who doesn't care about you and find someone that will treat you decently, she's not worth your time.
2006-12-17 09:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋