been w gf for a year and a half. she goes out with friends from college, girls night out. usually they goto a club or a bar.
then i learned that b4 me she used to hook up (grind dance, make out w 'hotties', not typically go all the way) when she'd go with this bunch and has cheated on at least one guy this way. i resisted the urge to become controlling over mere suspicion - but i started looking at the way she dressed differently, etc.
so, i concluded that she could be cheating on me, and i would never know. i became resigned, and started to have fun with the idea. about 6 months ago, i acted on it - before she went out, i gave her a condom to keep in er purse, telling her i'm not suggesting she use it, but just in case . . . she took it, and from that point on there has been a don't ask/ don't tell policy thats turned into a hot game, and an understanding that nothing will affect us.
a freind i told is convinced girls don't do 1niters like guys and will end up falling for a guy.
2006-12-17 09:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you still with her? She obviously doesn't respect you if she's going out with other men. Anyway, if you want to be used that way, go right ahead. You kind of answered your own question, don't you think? Gotta love the first answer though . . . you should be her pimp, not her boyfriend. Then you'd be getting something out of the relationship. Good night!
2006-12-17 09:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depend on the girl, some like one-nighter’s or jugging the men in an afford to make life a little less ordinary going back to who ever is making them feel best at that time others prefer settling. You say you are fine with her and other men; are you still fine if, she becomes pregnant on one of these nights out? Condoms are not 100% proof.
2006-12-17 18:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to really say about other then you think that it's hot then do what you need to do.But she will caught on and leave your *** for someone else.If that was me and you gave me that condom I would of knock the **** out of you.But everyone knows this is going to end up hurting someone maybe not know but it'll come.
But to ask your question Yes a girl can fall for a one nighter.
2006-12-17 17:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...
Well, of course they do....
There is a whole lifestyle subculture that revolves around this very phenomenon. It's called "Hotwife".... Men supporting their beautiful wives having one-niters, then sharing the experiences with their man, thereby enriching their own relationships.
While, myself, I would find this distasteful (at least on the surface), there is nothing at all "wrong" with it, or with you feeling that it is a "hot game"... You may wish to take it to the next level, and convince her to share some of her experiences with you, while the two of you are in bed, if that strikes your fancy.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-17 17:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on if it is love making or if it is fuc**** if it is love making then girls usually fall in love but just for a F*** then no
2006-12-17 17:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls fall in love
2006-12-17 17:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to charge and you could be livin' large as a pimp.
2006-12-17 17:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋