My boyfriend & i have ben goin out for 2 years.i love him but i dont feel that spark anymore. How do i tel him

Answer 1

Usually when people say that the spark or fire has died ot in a relatioship most of the time it meens that the person feels bored of the relationship and the rush is gone. Like remember in the beginging of the relationship u did everythign together and u would think about him all the time and whenever u were on the phone it would be for 2 or 3 hrs everyday? well all that has died out u probably still love him very much but because ur feelings for eachother are so strong u no longer need to be approved that u guys are in love. Couples who stay on the phone all day and do everything together are people who need to be assured that they are in a healthy and loving relationship but u guys dont need that becuase u guys are already assured since uve been going out for 2 years already. so if ur really concerned u should tell him or aks him what u guys can do to find that spark? like make dinner or spend some alone time together i hope everything works out ifne...good luck!

Answer 2

Sparks come and go. U will never alwaz feel a spark. Poeple like you like to think a true relationship a spark is alwaz there. News Flash it is not alwaz there. My best advice is tell him you feel how you feel different and if honestly love him you two will work it out. Love has different stages. And you are in a different one compared 2 him now. U have 2 decide what u want out of him. this will lead to 2 differnt things one u leaving him or you sticking it out and trying to work it out. So yeah make ur mind and stop messing with his feels. Games are meant to be on a gameboy not in a relationship

Answer 3

This situation is a tough one, but thousands of people go throught it around the same time in a relationship. You are coming to the point where you are settleing down and just living a normal life with each other. Maybe you guys need to spice things up, spend time apart and even take crazy vactions together. If you fee like you are not feeling him sexualy and he is just boring. Then maybe you should just move on and ask him to give you space for a while to see what you want.

Answer 4

you obviously don't want to break his heart so let him kno that ( that you don't want to hurt him) and this was obviously what most young loves are infatuation. you think they're going to last forever but the reality most of them are short lived romances and thats what yours seems to be but you and him can always remain platonic friends which is really close friend that share alot with each other and kno alot about each other but don't date or do anything intamate. so let him down easy but try to remain close. but then again if asks for some space give him some space. or maybe you need to find the spark again your just bored you haven't done anything new. but don't push anything. I hope this helps ( by the by if this does help have question in the same area thatg needs some attention)

Answer 5

You expect to feel a spark for someone forever??

Answer 6

just say look i don't feel the spark anymore either you fire up or we over or say i think it would be best if we were just friends

Answer 7

Just break it to him easily and tell him that you are sorry that you don't feel anything for him. Happy Holidays!! :)

Answer 8

before telling him, try to rekindle the flame. if that does not work then you sit him down and telling your issues and then you two talk it out. not shouting or crying, talk it out.

Answer 9

just talk to him and tell him it seems like we have lost the romance that we once had and i want to start things up again.