I've cheated before, and its happened again. how do i tell him without hurting him more than it already will?
2006-12-17 08:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by cassidythehoodlum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no easy way. If you keep cheating, you really aren't committed to him. Just tell him and move on with your life and let him do the same!
2006-12-17 08:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by sickoflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it's not working between you and you think you should break up. Only if he's really insistant tell him about the cheating. Its going to hurt him enough just breaking up with him without rubbing salt in the wounds as well - unless you have to. It won't be an easy conversation to have, so do it anywhere except your place, that way you can leave when you want to.
Good Luck.
2006-12-17 08:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It'll hurt him, and it seems that you're constantly going to hurt him. Cheating just don't "happen". You've put yourself in a situation that you shouldn't have been in. Get prepared to be dumped. If I was him, I'd do that. Sorry for being so blunt, have a good day.
2006-12-17 08:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id just say your a selfish heartbreaker and a terrible person. I mean you could at least just broken up with him but no, you have to go behind his back and date another person. Tell him and say your sorry and that your a really terrible person. And then go on to your other date so you can cheat on him too.
2006-12-17 08:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by somerandomguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to tell him. No matter what (if he has truely committed himself to your relationship) he is going to be hurt. Tell him in a quiet environment, not in public. You have to be able to tell him your intentions at that time too, if you want to stay together or go your separate ways.
Get help from a conselor if you stay with him!!!!
2006-12-17 08:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's going to hurt him no matter what... if i were him, i would feel like i meant nothing so there is no way i would stay in the relationship. I know my answer is mean, but truth hurts honey. you should've thought about it before you even did it.
2006-12-17 08:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny im sorry but you already ****** up. No matter how you tell him it will still hurt.
2006-12-17 08:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by lforgm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um like just tell him its not working out, and you just cant do it. then wiat a bit and then make ur other realasonship thingy public.
2006-12-17 08:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by climbergirl9519 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will not like it, twice, if my girl did it twice i would go into deep depression, if your conscious can handle not telling him, then ignorance will be bliss for him, good luck.
2006-12-17 08:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by future millionaire...im humble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that the other person came onto you and you were raped.
After that, QUIT CHEATING!!
2006-12-17 08:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by hmw95 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋