Got her number 1 year ago but had a girlfriend at the time so I never called her. Recently met her again so I told her I had a wrong number (She knew I was lying) so she gave it to me again. I know she wouldn't just ignore my call. I can see it in her eyes, she wants to get to know me.
So .. How long should I wait though. Ive been racking my brain on this.
2006-12-17 07:44:24 · 12 answers · asked by derek r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did leave a message on her phone.
Additionally, I know she doesn't resent me for lying to her. In fact I think it proved helpful in my situation.
[Asshole Factor]
I will be waiting 2 days, Tuesday, to call her again. Though I don't think she will call me first. So as not to look obsessed, because I'm not, and I guess I'll wait.
Thanks for the Answers.
2006-12-17 13:23:55 · update #1
Wait 3 to 4 days or even maybe a week if you want. BUT, Let her make the moves. Let her call you. Then make your moves. Don't rack yourself over it.
2006-12-17 07:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd wait a week, then give it one more try. Then I'd forget about it. She'll get your messages. Her phone is working. If she doesn't return your calls, you have your answer.
The only thing you saw in her eyes was her pupils. Sorry. Nonverbal communication in the manner you described isn't effective. If she didn't actually verbalize what she was thinking or feeling in that moment of giving you her number, you have no clue what was going through her mind.
So make one more call, if you must, but then forget about it if you don't hear from her.
2006-12-17 07:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try again now if it been more than 24 hours since you called- she may be out of town- It is the holidays. Also sometimes messages get lost/dont go through - especially if using a cell phone. Of course if you lied to her before she may not want to see you now. What you precieve may not be reality. Good luck!
2006-12-17 07:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by lvlady46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never think you 'know' anything about females you dont reallly know.
She might not recognize your number.
She might have been scared to pickup and wanted to hear your message.
She might be playing a game.
She might not have heard it and doesnt return calls from strangers.
..........on and on.
I would try once more the next day same time and leave a message with your contact info.
Then let it go.
2006-12-17 07:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she gave u her number she wants you to call her. Wait a day or two for her to return your call(if you left a message and your number) and call back.. she may be busy or deleted it by mistake.
2006-12-17 07:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her again if she answers great, if not just leave a message and ask her to call you back, if she calls back then congratulations you have a girl to spend the holidays with good luck...
2006-12-17 07:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't call you in a couple days try her again, but maybe she's had a change of heart, in which case two call should be the limit. After that, Don't prostrate yourself dude. Cling to your dignity!
2006-12-17 07:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you leave a message? If you did - then give it 3 days. If you didn't, then try again the next day.
2006-12-17 07:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by Laura C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate for a guy to ask for my form then wait continually to call me so i could say call her the next day on the latest. by using fact in case you shop her waiting she would think of your no longer involved anymore & is probably no longer involved in you once you ultimately do call her. yet its as much as you
2016-10-15 03:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol wait a couple hours about 4 an if she donty call back call again an then dont call back for two days you want her to know your interested but not obssed kk hope it works out bye bye
2006-12-17 07:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋