i broke up with my girlfriend because i thought she was being neglectful when in fact i was the neglectful one. i asked her out again, but she said she didn't want to. now she wont even think about going out with me, but i still love her. what should i do?
2006-12-17 06:52:07 · 8 answers · asked by irock123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you just broke up, second thoughts are common. You shouldn't try to get back together until you've sorted your emotions out.
If you feel you did wrong her, then apologize from your heart, and give her time to forgive you. If she does forgive you, then you can try asking her out again. But not before.
2006-12-17 07:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman doesn't want to see you grovel. A good chunk of women get offended by this and it's unattractive. You broke up with her for a reason, if she rejected you, that's her problem now and not yours. If she wants you back now, she should ask you.
Just, whatever you do, do not get into another relationship for a while! Just go work out and try to forget about her.
2006-12-17 15:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously she would reject you. no offense. you hurt her when you broke up with her so theres a possibility that she rejected bcuz u hurt her and she doesnt want to get hurt again. my advic eis if you really love her that much... tell her and say sorry again and again and be sweet to her but don't go like right away on her... let her take time to get over the fact that u broke up with her then just b friends with her then in time... MAYBE u two can be back together... i mean if she still has feelings for you after you hurt her... no offense. again.
well i hope that helps.
2006-12-17 14:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how much u miss her and that u wanna be with her and open up to her about Ur true feeling.. 4 all u know she is grieving over you. And is scared to go through the same pain again.. Just be nice and honest this time.
2006-12-17 14:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you realize you were wrong and you made a huge mistake... my girlfriend broke up with me and 4 months later she wanted to get back together and i forgave her and i've never been happier.
2006-12-17 14:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by cross country runner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't act like a jerk in the future
2006-12-17 14:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by sea_star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you face the consequences. and beg if u want her that much.
2006-12-17 14:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by rumpel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send flowers to her house
2006-12-17 14:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋