Ok, so theres this guy I really like at my school, but he's really hard to read and I get really confused. Like he'll wait on me after class, sit in the cafeteria (which is where I am, this change has started to happen in the last week) instead of going off campus, smile at me a lot, stare at me, want to be near me, etc.
But then he also asks other girls for pens/pencils when I'm pretty close to him, gives them a lot of attention (beyond friendly, more flirty) and stuff. How do I know he doesn't do this to lots of other girls on a daily basis?
It's just a huge ball of mixed signals. I've tried to mask my feelings for him completely because of this, he's in two of my classes and if it ends up he doesn't like me it would be awkward for the rest of the year.
2006-12-17 06:36:06 · 11 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Toughie, Guys are driven by Love and Lust.
I assume that the pencil girls are his lust, as he makes immediate headway for them, psychologicaly he will use them with immediacy too.
You attain smiles only.
This may be love. And even as a player, he may be shy/afraid of his Stronger feelings for you. - hence Love.
I'm a guy, but this is just my guess.
Be Strong - ask him straight!
Or find out if he has a common interest - like music, strike up a convo with him.
If smiles is all he got, dump the idea.
If he answers your musical Q with stutters or nervousness - its love.
Otherwise I agree with TOP SECRETS reply.
2006-12-17 06:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by mike and yahoo id openasenko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he probably likes you, but maybe not in the way that you want him to. However, you said that you were masking your feelings for him because you are afraid it would be awkward if you found out that he didn't like you. Maybe you need to put yourself out there a little bit. Show some interest in him (don't be too gushy about it). If he likes you he will gravitate toward you and won't show as much interest in the other girls. Maybe he is afraid of the same thing you are. Maybe he is been trying to show you he is interested, but because you have been masking your feelings he is afraid it will be awkward if he finds out you don't like him. Just a thought. Good Luck and remember it's not the end of the world if he doesn't like you.
2006-12-17 06:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by hockey2525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but from what I seem to do with guys while single was that I'd take all chances at being "close" with every member of the opposite gender. Instead of going for one, I'm taking all chances on anybody I feel I have a chance with or is attractive in some way. I do it until one of them get especially close to me, one of them becomes exceptionally appealing, etc.
I'm guessing that he does "like" you, but he's in the situation that I'm in at single state and is also taking chances with other girls he also "like". Don't mask your feelings for him and let him know, let it be implied or non-implied.
2006-12-17 06:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Pariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like too great of a girl to be with someone who doesn't appreciate you. When a guy likes you, he can't take his eyes off you... This guy sounds like he just likes to get attention from all the girls he can.
2006-12-17 06:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by creativefisher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simply because; He really likes you but feels ashamed that his showing you so much attention, just in case you dont like him back! His just insecure, and trying to lift himself by doing this to other girls. Its so that you might want him more, because he tryes to look 'wanted' and popular. His just trying to show of to you. You know what? Test him try and show a bit you like him and flirt gently. I promise hill be running to you and this behaviour will stop! Good luck!! x
2006-12-17 06:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like one big flirt honey. When a man likes you, he will let you know. Otherwise it's all just fun and games for him.
2006-12-17 06:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isnt worth it, sounds like a player
2006-12-17 06:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Aby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget it. it's a sign that he's going to be like that (flirting) even if he has a girlfriend.
2006-12-17 06:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just stringing you along...
2006-12-17 06:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not worthy of you.
2006-12-17 06:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋