Theres a man whos married but separated, I love him and have done so for a long time. He knows it, and has said he loves me too and will always love me.
However everytime i ask him to spend nights with me, he comes up with things, and says he doesnt want to move too fast.
His divorce will come clear in april, he told me. I have told him to leave me alone many times but he wont, and i have demanded more from him. Also he doesnt want me to meet his kids properly yet, I dont get it...
I said to him that i want to have my own kids one day, and that he allready has them. But he just sayd he wants kids with me in the future.
What should i do?? Its Soooo frustrating, but no other men interest me. What is he thinking..?
2006-12-17 06:34:37 · 6 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know for sure its all over and died with the woman he once loved! Its just that they grew apart.
2006-12-17 06:47:45 · update #1
Actually ,Noone could tell you wot he is thinking about you ... okay... first thing you have to make sure i.e, Does he really loves you? or there is any other problem ? I mean why he is getting divorced .? best advice i can give you is try to ignore him just dont talk to him dont call him or meet him for 2 weeks wots his reaction? then talk to me.. try to keep yourself busy. dnt think about him. ONe day you ll get your dream man.
2006-12-17 06:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny, I am going through something very similar.
My best guess is that he's still attached to his wife and he's unsure about divorcing her. This is on a subconscience level. Also, he could be afraid to make mistakes by going into a newer relationship with you.
Give him a few more months and if he's not willing to commit, get rid of him. If he won't leave you aloan, tell him you'll speak to his "soon to be" ex-wife. I'm sure that'll go over well with the divorce lawyers.
2006-12-17 14:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating a married man. He's not interested in having anything more with you. He doesn't want to have children with you. He doesn't want you to meet his kids. He doesn't want to get further involved with you. Demanding more from a married man is more foolish than dating one in the first place. Don't expect much from him- he's thinking that you're more or less a convenient diversion.
2006-12-17 14:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the odds of him committinmg to you are astronomical of you and him ever having a happy relationship are nil ...if you cut off the sex do you think he would stay with you for your mind? he is in love with you ...part time!
2006-12-17 15:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not being 100% truthful with you...
Be looking for another man...
2006-12-17 14:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is still going through that stuff from the last marriage i dont think he is ready yet
2006-12-17 14:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by mikysmith1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋