It takes a while, but yes some men are superficial and see only with their eyes. Others though, men who are better to get to know as friends first, see with their hearts as well. You might have to wait, but you'll meet one. I've seen many happy couples all over and have noted that just as many fall into the handsome and pretty category as not. Take heart in knowing there's always someone out there who is right for you.
2006-12-17 06:15:50
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answered by Reo 5
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I know the feeling. Many people, guys and girls, are shallow, and just look at the exterior of a person, not realizing that they're missing someone with an awesome heart on the interior. There is really no way you can get someone to love you, it'll just have to happen on its own. Just be yourself, don't act out of your character. I'm sure you'll get someone who's awesome sooner or later. I only wish you the best of luck....if you need more advice, then just message me. Have a great day.
2006-12-17 06:20:30
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answered by cajunrescuemedic 6
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You really are beautiful you just don't realise it.
Sometimes it's harder to get noticed because you might be lacking confidence. Attraction is all about confidence, not looks. Once you get past the physical appearance, if there's nothing there then eventually it will go by the wayside.
So be confident and be at peace with the way you look and eventually guys will start to see the real you and how beautiful you truly are.
2006-12-17 06:24:23
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answered by Ben R 4
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The men and women who judge people by their looks are destined to live a life of unhappiness and disappointment because looks do not last. Changes come with aging and looks do not guarantee faithfulness, fairness, understanding, social skill, industry, love or kindness toward anyone.
Continue to be yourself and to interact with those around you with honesty and thoughtfulness. Eventually, someone will see beyond the outward appearance and recognize your inner beauty and value. Best wishes to you.
2006-12-17 06:25:00
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answered by Jess4rsake 7
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You just need to find a guy that isn't a shallow scumbag. Looks aren't always everything, and people who base relationships solely on ones looks are never going to get far in life. Just be yourself, never change for anyone. Another suggestion is to be more confident, guys see right through girls, they can tell what their insecurities are. Guys like confident girls with good personalities, that doesn't necessarily mean you have to be drop dead gorgeous either, just have fun, and learn to love yourself. And don't go looking for guys, they'll come find you!
2006-12-17 06:19:15
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answered by Candii* 1
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I think men do judge women alot mainly by body or overall looks. And no matter what women is pretty/ beautiful. If you want him to liek you maybe get some makeup.
2006-12-17 06:22:43
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answered by hottierecy 4
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Sweetie, don't dis yourself. Confidence can be very attractive. But don't confuse confidence with conceit.
Also, if you want a man to love you let him love you for something that doesn't exactly fade away with time.
2006-12-17 06:17:18
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answered by Nina Abb 2
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Be yourself ,their is somebody for everybody, you talk as if your but ugly, that's our first problem you need to love and like yourself. I have never seen you before but I think your hot,have a merry christmas and a happy new year.
2006-12-17 06:54:56
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answered by This is just my opinion! 4
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I feel ya. I ain't the good looking neither. Ain't nobody like me neither. Human beings in general are mean
2006-12-17 06:19:22
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answered by ? 4
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send me a full body and face shot ,let me be the judge,do not dis yourself,you are hitting your self to hard,
2006-12-17 06:20:58
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answered by Anonymous
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