Please read: I like this guy and I found out my sister and him are friends with benefits. They've only hooked up though. I read this because she accidentally left her MSN window open.
She told him I like him and he began to stop talking to me and acted strangely in my company.
But these holidays he gave me his number and he's been dropping a lot of hints.
I confronted my sister but she denied it at first and then admitted that she only said "she thinks you're a nice guy". But in truth she told him how I feel.
I'm annoyed that she kept this from me, but they are no longer using eachother...
What should I do?
2006-12-17 06:08:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a guy who isn't involved with your sister in a purely sexual relationship
2006-12-17 06:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's maximum acceptable you on or on the least, attempting to have you ever the two. tell your sister and get as a strategies removed from the jerk as plausible. you do no longer want that form of guy on your life. he will ruin your coronary heart and reason hardship between you and your sister. it is not nicely worth each and all of the discomfort you will quickly be dealing with.
2016-10-15 03:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your sister would do something with the guy that you like knowingly means that you shouldn't trust her with that type of stuff. I believe that it would be better for you to find another guy that has absolutely nothing to do with your sister. I have a feeling that the guy you like right now might just be using you to get back at your sister. So try not to get involved with him in that kind of way.
2006-12-17 06:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like if they are no longer using each other that he hopes you will feel your sister shoes and become the next friends with benifits.. sadly the things some people think that brothers or sisters act the same way just as they tend to judge you by the people that you hang out with..i agree with the person above me find someone who was not involved with your sister just for sex
2006-12-17 06:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you and your sister are vying for the affections of a guy who is kind of a jerk. A nice guy maybe, but not too bright with the issues of feelings and relationships.
Let your sister wallow in the muddy waters of this "beneficial" relationship and you should move on on to a relationship in a tropical paradise.
2006-12-17 06:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone, If someone has been with you or any member of your family you don't need to be with them. It will cause you and others more pain and regret, than the pleasure you think you want to recieve or give. Be more mindful of want he really wants. Do you want him to use you for your body. REALLY there should be nothing you want from him, he had your sister. Friends with benefits sleep together. there is a special person waiting just for you. Be patient.
2006-12-17 06:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by honestly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should DEFINETELY tell your sister what you think about what she did and that you don't trust her anymore.. about he guy, if you really like him (in spite of the fact he ignored you and was a friend with benefits with your sister)... then start to talk to him more, and go for it!! (have in mind that you really need to talk to your sister about your intentions with this guy because she could really upset.. I know she hurt you but you don't want to hurt her too, right?
good luck!
2006-12-17 06:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just leave him alone i dont think anyone wud want to go out with someone there sister was going out with or messing around with, it wud cause too much problems, you wud always be doubting what he feels for you. and if your asking this question its probably because youve really fallen for him so dont do it.
2006-12-17 06:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear. I would definitely let this one go. You can't hook up with a guy that's hooked up with your sister. The both of them hid it from you when there was nothing going on, so I wouldn't trust him to not want to hook up with her if the two of you are dating.
2006-12-17 06:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Vee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't mind your sister..
At least you know where he has been and that he is clean...
If you want him...
Go after him...
He might be a really good guy..
Is your sister a good judge of men ?
2006-12-17 06:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋