I am too in love with my boyfriend...how can I stop??
i am too in love with him and it is growing everyday .....If he does not love me back then i will be crushed....how do make myself not be soooo in love. help! I think he flirts with other girls and does not call in advance to make dates anymore. I feel like i may need to get an extra boyfriend to take the focus off the one i have now so that I am not so crazy in love all the time. should i date others even though we are in an exclusive realationship
2006-12-17 06:02:32 · 13 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should NOT get another boyfriend. just contain yourself, go out with your friends. ask him how he feels about you, that you feel as thou you like him more than he likes you, and if thats the case, you'd just like to know as to not put your all into it.
2006-12-17 06:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by beautiful is a phase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable, then you have to end it; it isn't healthy to start such a game inside relationships.
Remember the following:
In a relationship you must be happy in all aspects.
Not because you are in a relationship you must stick with it.
Not becouse you like someone you must date him.
And not because u dont wanna actually date someone, u have to avoid enjoying time with that person.
Try to enjoy life as it is, relationships allways have good times and bad times, but if ur not happy a 100%, then there's no point on going further.
Feelings aren´t something u can just take away, but you can figure a way for u to direct feelings in a positive way.
Hope some of this works for you.
2006-12-17 14:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Drache 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to date others, then do it. If he objects then break up with him. If he doesnt like those ideas just tell him he isnt giving you what you want.
Another thing to consider though is people do not fall in love necessarily at the same time or the same rate. Nothing is ever fair in love. So figure out how much you are willing to give someone and what you expect back from them.
2006-12-17 14:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have committed ur first sin, never love anyone more than they love you. He flirts with other women because he knows he has you where he wants you, he knows you're not going anywhere. Don't let him know how deeply toy love him. Men play sports because the like competition when you become too available and too easy they'll start to stray. Be careful and good luck.
2006-12-17 14:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by seandel g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think playing him is the solution but i think you must naturally try and get over him. It will take time because if you rush it you'll never be completely over him and i'm sure you don't want that baggage on you, know do you? If you get crushed, well... atleast you know the truth, know you can stop making excuses for him an face reality
2006-12-17 14:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by sexyness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you might be smothering him which is why he's pulling away. You do not cheat on someone to get over them. If you can't deal or you think he's not the right one for you then what you need to do is end it before you get hurt.
2006-12-17 14:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure that if DOD wants you to be with your boyfriend,,so you will must see that all conditions will be according to your desires because GOD wants that....but if GOD knows that your relationship is not good for both he will take you away from this relationship.....SO YOU MUST TRUST ON GOD.....and live your life without any WORRY
2006-12-17 14:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by dr.dunia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself you deserve better and you will find better; then you can stop chasing the wind. Build your confidence...
http://www.public-speaking-solutions.com/build-confidence.html
2006-12-17 14:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there and done that before
youll probably jsut have to end it
but ask him how much he loves you and be totally ready for him to end it
2006-12-17 14:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Raina F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get more things to do , like sports or friends so you will not be in too him so much.
2006-12-17 14:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋