well i started dating this guy and I asked him if he thought it would be too soon to kiss.and he said that no but he wants to wait because he thinks im special and he wants our first kiss to be special.he also said that hes never felt this way about any other girl before.i felt sooo lucky because i was dating him and ive been wanting to forever and then one night i called him to say good-nite. like 5 minutes after i got off the phone with him he texted me and said "sry but im breaking up with u" and i asked why and he said "because i want to OK?" and my friend said that he told her why he dated me and it was because he needed a girlfriend at the time.i know what he did was qrong and i know he used me and i know that there are soo many other guys out there but for some reason i still like him A LOT. i dont know if i should and i dont know what i should do. just some one please help me and give me some advise. its only been 3 weeks but i still have strong feelings 4 him. help me
2006-12-17 06:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by brit_09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start a new relationship.
2006-12-17 06:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how ya feel. My ex cheated on me, but I still felt so in love with him, and I really felt like I would be able to forgive him. None of my friends understood why I felt like I did. It was always, "Come on, Katie, he's not worth it", or "Just move on already." It was really hard. But I also knew I would find someone else. I started talking a lot to a good friend of mine and he was such a great listener I just stopped thinking about how much I still "loved" my ex. Because it never really was love; I just thought I needed him so much. Trust me, there is another guy out there who won't put you through any bullshit, and you will fall madly in love and feel so wonderful. Just keep lookin and prayin. Happy Holidays!!!!!
2006-12-17 06:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♥KP♥MH♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though your attraction to him was always stronger than his attraction to you. He never wanted to kiss you because he was not interested in a relationship with you anyway.
What he should have done was tell you the truth in the first place.
You should keep meeting new people and avoid putting all of your feelings into one relationship until one of those dates gives you concrete verbal and social evidence that he is committed to building a future with you. Stop trying so hard to be in a relationship. Enjoy your freedom, now.
2006-12-17 06:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A verbal rejection is better than going further and deeper with your feelings for him. Apparently, you made an internal commitment to him and looked forward to his promise of a special kiss and maybe more. Feel good about yourself kiddo!
Someone telling you flat out they dont want you is easier to move on. Not necessarily overnight, but you can take a deep breath and tell yourself to not give your heart so easily next time. Make them earn it. ok?
2006-12-17 06:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn that like is spelled L-I-ok-E. Sorry, that in simple terms particularly stricken me. . .even between the countless different bastardizations of the English language on your question. yet to answer your question, no, i do no longer think of you need to. the very incontrovertible fact which you suggested which you had a objective to have your first kiss by making use of the top of seventh grade leads me to have faith that your selection to objective and kiss this guy is extra in step with that fairly than on it being the main suitable time. So rather of attempting to tension a kiss to fulfill some arbitrary remaining date on your first kiss, i could spend time focusing on your study. you at the instant are not even 13 years previous, so do no longer push it, in simple terms enable it come for sure and if the time feels suitable, circulate forward and kiss him.
2016-10-15 03:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hun let me tell you a little story: HE was a great guy, funny and sweet and very sensitive so SHE fell for it. a few weeks after they met HE told HER that he loves her, even though they didn't even kiss. next week HE told HER that HE was actually in love with HIS ex. and the next week... HE was hitting on HER best friend. the end
sooo... forget about him. SHE did. and now SHE is dating someone else, someone SHE really likes
2006-12-17 06:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him girl. Represent us women and move along.He used you and no one should ever go through that.
2006-12-17 06:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, no one deserves to be treated like dat, u should forget em and move on. hes not worth ur love
2006-12-17 06:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him he is jerk you are so young and have all your life to find the boy who make you feel so right
2006-12-17 06:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life girl!!!!!!!!!, wat you waiting for! him to come back and say i'm really sorry, girl plzzzzz! get up and find a true man.
2006-12-17 06:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by Carolyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋