i m divorcee and currently i m having someone who is single and had girl friends about whom he told me.should i tell him about all of my past affairs?
2006-12-17 05:35:21 · 16 answers · asked by shasnin172 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY? your past and his past are irrelevant ............its the future thats relevant
2006-12-17 05:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by man with the golden gun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to tell him about all you past affairs all he needs to know is that you had 2 men when you were young an about your ex husband if you had 20 men why are you going to tell him it won't change the past or make your future better with this man, an i bet he never told allllllllllllllll about the women in his life, he just told you the ones he thinks will make you feel sorry for him, don't be fooled same thing you do the same thing men can do
2006-12-18 01:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're serious enough with someone to get engaged (your question is confusingly worded -- did he propose to you?), then he has a right to know about your most serious relationships. He doesn't have to have all the details or know about every partner, but past relationships do help define a person, so it's important to talk about the experiences, good or bad, that have made you who you are.
On the other hand, if you're just starting to see someone, no, you don't need to talk about your past relationships. It's better to wait until you're both comfortable with each other.
2006-12-17 05:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him if he wants to know is the simple answer.
He might or might not, depends if it bothers him or if it was me, i wouldn't be that interested or care.
At the end of the day, you became the person you are by your lifes experiences which includes your past relationships, they help make you the person you are today.
2006-12-17 05:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling you should free your mind, which I guess you are since you are asking about it, then I would say go ahead and be honest with him about your past. The past is the past. You can only take what you have now and go forward.
2006-12-17 05:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by tru_til_da_end 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK You both had Partners in the Past
No need to go into any Sordid Details
What more is there to say to him!
2006-12-17 05:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by uksawatdii 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe being honest is the best way, if you release yourself you will have nothing to hid, then you will be at peace with yourself, if you are honest then you wont have to remember anything The famous saying "The truth will set you free"
2006-12-17 05:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bad under normal circumstances but when he ask u to dont lie about that.Wait till he ask u. I am sure he will do one day and dont give him detailed answers because this can cause the relationshp.
2006-12-17 05:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see why you should. after all what you did or who you seen is of no relevence to him. the same goes for him as well, just be happy together and enjoy each other,s company.goodluck from everyone here in glasgow scotland. merry xmas
2006-12-17 05:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by LYNDA M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd only tell him about the ones you feel comfortable with him knowing about.
2006-12-17 05:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by comeundone4162 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume you meant he propositioned you and not proposed?? i don't think you have to volunteer all the info but on the other hand with all the STD's out there, don't you want to know about his as well as him yours? but you don't have to go into detail...
2006-12-17 05:38:04 · answer #11 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋