I have an anxiety about asking a girl out. I am afraid that I will be humiliated, so instead of being embarassed, I will avoid asking any girls out for the rest of my life. I like a girl, but I have no chance with her, so the hell with her. I have liked many girls before, but I have no chance with any girl in my school, so the hell with all of them. I will just wait for them to come to me. if they don't, then no one will get me. It is hard to ask a girl out, because I don't know many attractive girls personally. No girl would like me anyway, plus if I did manage to somehow miraculously get a girl, I would have to put up with my parents being in the way all the time, and making comments like "oh, you have a girlfriend, that's cute" or something stupid like that. So, I will never ask a girl out. I have low self esteem, and I don't want to fix it. What should I do?
2006-12-17 05:29:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everytime something NEGATIVE pops in your head...push it out & change it into a POSITIVE thought. I mean, even if you don't really believe it it'll help to make you feel better & start changing your way of thinking. You get a thought of how a piece of crap you are...stop yourself right there & say to yourself even outloud if you want that you are an attractive, honest, loving man & any woman should be honored to have you. Some people even put a rubberband on their wrist & everytime a negative thought enters their head they flip themselves with the rubberband so they are feeling man everytime they have a bad thought thus helping them to stop thinking that way. Good luck~
2006-12-17 05:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In good ol' sales technique - you have to go through X number of NO's to get a YES.
Don't think of it as rejection. Think of it as "No sale." and move on to the next.
The key thing is to treat each customer as if they were the most important one or even the only one and respect each fully.
You'll be surprised how many people you can win over with simple respect.
2006-12-17 13:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by misspearlnecklace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more u think abt it n da more u tell ur self dat u lack confidence da more it ll over come u ...m sure u hav friend go n talk to dem tell dem abt ur prob n still doesnt work go stand in front of da mirror n tell ur self u r CONFIDENTn repeat it several tymes for few days n trust me it ll help u alottt n ny gal wud love to go out wid me! stop thinkin dat u anit gud enufff n such crappppp try engagin urslef different activities at school wake up n smeel da world its waitin for U
al da besttt
2006-12-17 13:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about being hummiliated. I have followed all your questions about love and I say suck it up!!! I mean everyone gets humiliated. Get over yourself and ask this girl out!!!!
2006-12-18 22:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Fantasy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last statement was, " I have low self esteem and dont want to fix it". Why ask what you should. You know what you have to do. Just be yourself.
2006-12-17 13:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by edward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pull it out and see if she goes for it
2006-12-17 13:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋