we've been together for 3 years and 6 months but he fall out in love with me, we broke up and i still cant move on. pls help me give me some advise and pls include your own experience regarding this matter i would appreciate it very much thanks. :)
2006-12-17 05:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this is hard for you. The old saying that time heals all wounds is true. Go out and be social it will help.
2006-12-17 05:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard you can't get over someone just like that. I was in a relationship for 5yrs when my girl left me. I am still feeling the affects of that now. What I'm doing is staying active with work and school. I also pray. That's what mainly keep me going. I know in time that someone else will come my way. Time will heal all wounds. You will have your down and out, sad and depressed period. Don't stay that way very long or you will never get up and get out and start over. Take your time and take it day by day. You will be fine. I wish that i could e-mail you sometime & we can walk through this together. I will be praying for you & i hope you feel better.
2006-12-17 05:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by sadtiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship for three years when I broke up with my girlfriend. I'm going to be honest - she was devastated. She went through a period of about three months of physical illness, depresson, the works...it was really awful.
She eventually found someone and to make a long story short, she's happy now.
It's hard to really move on from a relationship like that...some would argue that you never FULLY move on. Unfrtunately, all I can really tell you is hang in there. Hang in there. Hang in there.
It's so hard, but just know that there's always light at the end of the tunnel. You may not see it, but take it from someone who has.
I'm truly sorry you have to go through this, but perhaps everyone should at one point in their lives. Happy holidays to you :)
2006-12-17 05:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dustin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a book. everytime you wanna talk about it, or talk to him, dont call him, just write it down. spend moretime with people that missed you while you were with him. see all the things you missed while being a realtionship. its veryyyy hard at first. force yourself to not be in contact with him. the longer you are able to go the better and easier it will get. im up to a one min convo 2x a month. while seeing other ppl does get your mind off of him...dont be hasty cuz you'll do things you arent completely comfortable with....finding someone that you can talk to about it, would be ideal, most people will get tired of hearing about it after a while, so maybe having a few people would be better.
dont try to workit out, its over for a reason. and it brings you that much closer to the person who is right for you. and that person is 10x better than this one and would never fall out of love with you. be thankful that this realtionship happened, youve learned much from it...and take that with you when go into a realtionship the next time.
knowing what you know allows you to help others, like what im doing now. wen i broke up with my bf......it took months! and im stilllllllll not completely over him. i cried SOOO much it was stupid.
and i know this. and sometimes it just cant be helped. but theres someone out there for each of us. and that person is perfect for us. just wait until you meet him.
Keep yourself busy, dont allow yourself to mope. Get a job this way your energy is focused on something that requires your attention, and you'll be making money too!
hope you feel better.
2006-12-17 05:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful is a phase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how hard this must be. Time heals everything. You have to understand that there is no explanation in why some people fall out of love, sometimes there is a reason, sometimes not, it jsut happens, just as falling in love does. You have to concentrate on your own qualities, the man of your dreams is waiting on you somewhere out there and you will lvoe him more than this guy, trust me.
2006-12-17 07:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 10:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult, but eventually it will happen;
I have been in love a few times.
First with my husband whom I then divorced.
Then I started my life again, and it's like being a teenager again; You have your heart broken and you do break some hearts, until hopefully you meet the right one.
You do have to give yourself some time; But it will get better.xx
2006-12-17 05:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre very maganda i know its so hard to let go and in time you bf will come to understand what he is miss in his life and that was you my fiance was in the same boat intell i came along and took her away now he so sorry and its too bad because we are so in love and going to get marry i hope you will find some one who love you as i love my fiance good luck
2006-12-17 05:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost the love of my life. its extremely difficult but; time, keeping busy and surrounding myself with supportive friend and family.
its hard to accept, but things happen for a reason. and if you are religious or spiritual, lean on that too.
2006-12-17 05:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋