theres this guy. we had our first real relationships with eachother years ago. we had the worst breakup and we recently started speaking again. he has a girlfriend who he hates (and i hate, too). i have a boyfriend whoi cant stand. he finally came home for vacation, so we finally hung out & ended up having sex for the fun of it. we've done it twice now, but he always ends up feeling guilty and can't finish. and it sucks because i get all into it and then we dont finish. it's like, what, do i suck? am i not good enough to keep your mind off of her? (i know i am. so wtf?!) I want him to just forget about her. then i dont want to grow feelings for him before he just leaves again until next vacation. i LOVE being the one he cheated on her with. i want him to like me alot. as a matter of fact, i want him to be in love with me again. i want to love him again, too, but then i dont because to me it's pointless, i'll never see him. plus it didnt work out last time. should i just tell him?
2006-12-17 05:23:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You like the power of F-ing the other woman throw him.
2006-12-17 05:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound miserable, and you seem to love making everyone else miserable with you.
if you dont like the boy you are with, dump him.
if you dont like your ex's girl, dont sleep with him to get at her.
why are you screwing him for? you guys are both cheaters, and you allowing yourself to be used, and then on top of that, you arent being used completely, bcuz at least HE has feelings and feels guilty about cheating....did he cheat on you when you were together?
If he hates his gf so much, he shouldnt be with him, becuz she deserves better than to be dealing with the two of you.
2006-12-17 05:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful is a phase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell him and see how he feels if he feel like you can work it out then maybe you two can give it another try but if not just remain friends
2006-12-17 05:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first yall should break-up with the people yall are going out with cuz thats not right. but it sounds like you and him have problems.
2006-12-17 05:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding. he hates her, you hate the other guy, you love him and want him to love you. blablabla. it sounds to me that you should not be in a relationship at all.until your a little more mature to handle one.
2006-12-17 05:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋