I always think about my ex-boyfriend whom i cannot even find him.
2006-12-17 05:12:26 · 19 answers · asked by Esther K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay. Now a lot of girls have this issue so know that you are not the only one. But here is the things you should try to do:
1) try to keep busy dont sit around and act like the world is falling apart or that everything is okey. just make sure that you have people around or that you are out and about. do ANYTHING!!!
2) turn to your friends when you feel like it is all too much. just tell them everything you feel in 5 minutes. just keep going on and on until all the emotion is out.
3) realize this its going to take time. its not all going to go away immediatly. dont expect that you will just forget him because if thats what you are thinking you are more wrong than you would like to think.
4) and dont get out into the dating world until your ready. its not fun if you push your feelings for someone when they really arent there.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-17 05:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't the answer you probably want, but the only way you can get over an ex is by time. The more time that goes by, you will gradually find you are thinking less and less about him. Some of us never get over a guy particularly if we have either been treated really well by him or really badly. Take this time guide as a tip. Lots of books say that take the amount of time you were together and half it. Thats how long it usually takes to properly be able to move on. So if you were together for 3 years it will take a year and a half to forget.
2006-12-17 05:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back out with him. He's not right for you, if he starts trying to hit on you again then you know he just isn't right. He shouldn't have done that to you and it's really rude for him to get you back when you loved him dearly and he clearly did not. He will relapse and you won't be able to trust him again, you really won't. You probably will forgive, but is it wise to trust him when he went out with the girl he cheated on you with? You have to question that if he ever hits on you, like does he sincerely love you, does he just miss being in a relationship rather than miss you? You shouldn't have to be treated like some kinda of object. It will take a lot of time to forget about him but it will all be worthwhile. You need to distract yourself as much as possible and you are allowed to cry at times but don't let the crying bring you down, if anything it should make you stronger right? You can find someone so much better, you deserve someone better. You need someone so faithful to you and would never leave you for a girl.
2016-05-23 02:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you aren't asking us to give you our blessing to go shag your ex while you are married?!! while yourhusband is away im sorry but those wedding vows mean something you know, they're not just words. if you really feel this way then tell your husband maybe you can sort through this together.
On the other hand we all think about 'the one that got away' from time to time and because i think you are having a bit of a tressfull time with your partner this will die down find something to do im sorry its a bit blunt but im just being honest.
2006-12-17 06:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by chickL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a real problem with this when my boyfriend and i broke up last year. we had been dating for amost two months and although it sounds silly saying it now, i thought that i could spend the rest of my life with him. i really truly loved him. every time i saw him after that, i just wanted to reach out and grab him and never let go. i found that making lists of the things that made me "love" him really helped. i found out that i only "loved" him because of physical things and not for his personality (which was really very bleak). that really helped me to let him go. also, our break-up didnt have a sense of finality to it, so i called him up and asked him, is it really over, or are you expecting me to wait for you? he told me that he didnt want me to wait and that yes it was over and it gave me the sense of finality that i needed in order to move on. i see him all the time at school now and now i can walk by without so much as a glance towards him. try these things and if that doesnt work, then just go out and find another man who really cares about you. that was my final step in letting him go and it worked like a charm. good luck!
2006-12-17 05:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Danie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out with your friends. and know that its for the best. he's obviously an ex for a reason. learn to accept that and move on..
2006-12-17 05:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of all the times he let you down and forget his name what x boyfriend surely by now youve got another come on girl get moving you can do it
2006-12-17 05:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by susan will of the wisp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you are coming from, I am always thinking about a bf that never way. It's hard to get over though, but best of luck and if you do over come this please let me know!
2006-12-17 05:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by suckaslug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gt on with your life. Find someone else obviously he is doing something other than thinking of you, if you dont know where he is.
2006-12-17 05:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey babe, whoever said it will be easy is a liar.......It takes time so take it easy...love hurts.!!! u will find someone better to mend the broken hearts, try listening to love songs at ur leisure, it helps to encourage u........Celine dion and others CHER 111 ETC
2006-12-17 05:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋