is it right for a married man to love someone else?

Answer 1

does it sound right to you? if so, there is something wrong with your morals...

Answer 2

I think it depends in which context you mean Love. Do you mean cheating on your wife love? No, that's not right, if you love someone else then you need to tell you wife and try to resolve your issues. Do you mean first love, love? Then yes I believe it is possible for a married man or woman to love someone else. But you should never put another lover before your spouse. If you feel that you love another more than your spouse then you owe it to both of them and yourself to make a decision. There are all kinds of feelings of love to classify different relationships, but I think its up to the individual to draw the line of where and when its appropriate for a married person to love someone else. I hope this gives you a insight to your question.

Answer 3

someone else is a very vague thing. There are so many people, frenz, parents, colleagues, relatives etc. etc. who a person can love.

One also can't say that love is right or worng out of wedlock, bcoz it happens no one does it on purpose. Sometimes, a person is not able to marry his / her love and cannot help but forget the ex even after marriage.

BUT what is wrong is actually infidelity and breach of trust. It is absolutely necessary that not only the man but also the woman remain completely loyal to his / her spouse, maintain the trust and dignity in thier relationship.If both will work towards that, then love will itself flourish in between them and there won't be chances of any flings etc. outside their relationship.

Answer 4

You mean to be in love with someone else. No because you married this person for better or worse times have gotten worse between about bill and problem and know you go towards another person. Is that right you said voles and did not mean it or did not expect it would get that bad. Why are we so weak? why do we want life so easy do you think getting with this other chic, it will be easier with her no you will have probably some of the same problems but you live with your wife and not her ofcourse things are better with her you make love you don't talk abou bills and problems are kids, you lay and relax she all attention on you. Is that fair to the women you voded to love and charish. Work on you loving you and respecting you and you may start to accept and love your wife she probably would lay her life down for you and the other women would just lay on her back for you. God bless you to get the love back in your heart for your wife. Try communicating with your wife and telling her what she ddoes that get on your nerves it might help her to change if you be honest but right now you are being very unfair to your wife.

Answer 5

It's natural for you to have feelings, but it doesn't mean you can't control them. This is the difference between a child and an adult. Children throw tantrums because they don't have control of their emotions. An adult may have emotional impulses, but has the wisdom to act on them or not.

Also, being married isn't a constant stream of love and passion. It comes and goes. Unless you never had that love and passion in the first place such as in an arranged marriage(?)

Loving another person isn't wrong, but how you behave about it defines who you are. You can decide your marriage is done and be honest with the process or you can behave deceptively and treat your partner like a fool.

Answer 6

This really depends on the situation. But no matter what, respect the marriage vows.

But yes, it is ok to love more than one person at the same time. It is what we decide to do with that love is what is important.

If a married man loves someone else besides his wife, it is not ok to kiss or have sex with that person. However it is ok to be good friends.

Answer 7

The fact that you'd ask that question shows how selfish and seriously messed up you are. Get a divorce so that your wife can find someone better than you.

Answer 8

Normally no. But if the relationship with his wife has hit rock bottom even after all efforts made by him to bring it to normal, I guess it is excusable and somewhat acceptable then. Or if his wife happens to be unfaithful to him.

Answer 9

it would be my nightmare come true if i learnt that my husband loved someone else...or worse yet if he loved me AND the other one! i don't want to tell you whats right or not but think about her as well...

Answer 10

if you agree same for your wife ,then it is o.k u both can enjoy other taste.

if you do anything ,just think how will you feel it other also same with you.

u wilth some one's wife then feel someone with your wife

u with someone daughter ,then feel your daughter with someone else
u will get reply of yr question.

Answer 11

Some people will try to remind you of your morals,but they will not tell what they are doing .Do not worry.Life is very short.Enjoy with everybody you gets chance to.