What is your experience with guys who are relatively successful picking up girls?

Question

Let's be specific: We're talking about guys that hit on girls a lot, especially strangers, and successfully hook up for one-night stands a good percentage of the time.

Here's my experience with these types of guys: they are conceited pricks. They are insulting and rude. But, they are never boring, and they make you laugh, in spite of how much you may dislike them. And, their approach with women is to go for the frontal assault. They start talking about sex right away, or make it obvious right away that it's the reason they are talking to the girl.

In terms of looks they are either the big "tough guy" type, or the "cute" runway model skinny guy. Dorky looking guys struggle as if trying to find a cure for old age.

How does your experience compare to mine?

Answer 1

'Never boring eh??

Most of my womanizing friends have trouble with long term relationships. Why? Because they lack intamacy and women get bored with them. Its sort of like chocolate pudding. Sure its great, but if you ate it every day you would probably get sick and die. Youd be better off with a healthier choice.

As the "dorky"friend More comfortable in my Edmonton Oilers jersey then a slim fit shirt. I do have more trouble meeting them. I also have dated some AMAZING people that wouldn't give my pals the time of day. Intelligent women find my pals flattering, but also patronizing sometimes.

Answer 2

You are one smart person,it's all true.
I met this extremely attractive,funny,exciting guy that I couldn't pull myself away from.I met him that night, and guess what I found out,CLEARLY, in the end,all he wanted was to use me for one thing.I'm a girl that loves to have fun,but I don't play that way and I was actually VERY disappointed in him.
I never aked for his number,though I wish I did, but he unwrapped the present WAY befor christmas if you know what I mean.Theyre fun,but they're not the type of guy you can introduce to your parents.