ok, i have a boyfriend that has a class with me and my other friend Sarah. During class it seems like he talks and pays more attention to her. i get easily jealous and i know its wrong. Every now and then i try to think up ways to break up with him but whenever i see him or talk to him, everything is alright and my troubles away. Sarah has a boyfriend also and my boyfriend knows that. i dont think he would do anything to hurt me. but it seems everytime i try to leave him, i just cant. i wouldnt call it love because i dont know what it is. i know im crazy! comments or suggestions? what should I do if i think something is happening? am i being paranoid?
(please no rude comments! thanks).
2006-12-17 04:30:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me a lot of girls have these feelings. Chances are there is nothing wrong. I know that even if I see my boyfriend talking to someone I get a little jealous, it's natural. But somewhere you have to draw the line. If you see something that really bothers you then I would just say something to him and let him know. Don't do anything rash like break-up with him because he talks to girls. So I would say to just let him have his (girl) friends and just keep a watchful eye.
2006-12-17 04:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by deppfreak6963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to break up with him? Because you think he is interested in other girls, or are there other problems. In either case, don't overreact until you know what is going on. Ask your boyfriend if he has any feelings for her. You shouldnt break up with him until you know exactly what is going on. Maybe you are being a bit paranoid. Does he treat your friend the same way outside of class? Ask yourself these questions and ask him, nicely and calmly, if he has feelings for her. It could make all the difference in your relationship.
2006-12-17 04:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by New Mommy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i feel the same way about my bf and my friend! they are always talking and sending each other messages over myspace! and i know its wrong to get jealous, but everyone does! but i asked my friend yesterday if she liked him and she told me the truth! NO! which it made me happy to hear that! but me and my bf have had the talk about liking other ppl along time ago....we can look at other ppl, just not cheat on each other, i mean everyone looks at someone and says, man he/she is cute, hot...etc. but we wouldnt break up w/ each other just bcuz of that! if i were you, i would ask your friend if she likes him! GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-17 04:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes in high school people are immature and stuff like that. But if you really like him, why not kinda stop talking to him and see if he tries to contact you again? Lay off a little and see if he follows.
2006-12-17 04:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by jason b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. Dump him and move on to someone who will respect your feelings.
This guy isn't ready to settle down and be fully committed
to this relationship. Let him have his freedom and you
move on.
2006-12-17 04:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend, u talk to other people also. does he know u get easily jealous if he does maybe he is doing it on purpose maybe he likes to see u mad... just give it some time to figure things out
2006-12-17 04:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just being typical female, and he's being typical male... no personal flaw in either of you, that's just the way guys and girls are... cats and dogs
2006-12-17 04:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! Get rid of him....unless you too like women then all 3 of you get together.
2006-12-17 04:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by UseMyAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should start trusting him..trust is crucial in relationships..
2006-12-17 04:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋