i met this guy a week ago. Hes rly nice and gentle n cute n everything. I want him..as in hes gr8 n is a keeper. I wanna make this work but i dnt no how, i always tend 2 be quick n it all gets screwed so i need 2 no how to act, when to call him or how many times a week, how to SLOW DOWN coz thats a big prob with me...I need alot of advice coz i think hes a gd guy n i shouldnt lose someone like that, im so scared i'll go too fast n be too excited n scare him off...so what should i do?
2006-12-17 04:29:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be cool and be yourself. I mean don't say straight off that you like him, it will scare him off. Speak to him normally, but leave something as a mystery. Make him think of you with curiosity, don't call.. I mean run into him a few times casually. Be someone he can talk to, get him to confide in you and see him for who he actually is.
2006-12-17 04:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to keep yourself from calling him sometimes ,wait until he asks you to but show your interest in him ,ignoring or avoiding him might scare him off and disappoint him too .
2006-12-17 12:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men get afraid of aggresive strategy. Work something out so that you can see him without being a date and do not ask him out or call him often.
2006-12-17 12:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same but i got over it. just dont rush into things. be friedns first talk get to know each other first. dont call him often, well if u did to call him and dont be on the phone for hours. hope it goes well.
2006-12-17 12:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep asking
if he says he needs a little space, then maybe let him have that
if he says its ok and its fun and all good, then just don't worry
maybe he doesn't even have a cell phone
2006-12-17 13:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slow talk with him by wishing him marry chrismas and ask his name not more than that. just have little talks like that with him and slowly you both will become good friends.best of luck.
2006-12-17 12:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-17 12:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Puddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋