We usually communicate with phones or either we'll just chat...ive noticed that he hurts me alot and he cares more about others compared to me. He doesnt even know when im feeling down and he always argues with me. I try to avoid all the arguements but he ends up telling me sorry. Does he really love me or he just likes the way i look?
2006-12-17 04:28:16 · 29 answers · asked by JeZzZ J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well let me tell you from advice sweetie i was 13 years old and i was a dating a 20 year old man i hid it for about a year then one day my brother foundd out and fought the guy and he told my mom so i ran away and after about another year my family just kinda dealt with it, they never accepted it they just dealt with it. and we dated for 8 years we just recently went our seperate ways and now that i am older and wiser i wish i did things diffrent in a way he made me stronger and ina way he made me so sad. but there is no reason a man should date or wanna date a child and if so theres something wrong with him or he is very immuture there is no way you and his minds aare on the same level, so from me to you i want to say take your time growing up and if he is putting time into something else then you, that means you should run the other way and do you for a change you still have plenty of time to meet a man and fall in love and have him treat you like a queen, good luck and merry christmas...
2006-12-17 04:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a verb...its something you do. His actions should show you how he feels...not simple words. If you only have his words to believe he loves you...then he doesn't.
Personally, I'd think twice about a guy who is 24 years old and dating a 13 year old. You have to ask yourself how much does he really have to offer to you in the long run if he can relate to someone 10 years his junior.
It's different when you've past your 30s and all you have left are opportunities to choose from. Adolescence is too structured to give a person a full-breadth of opportunity.
I'm sorry, but if he was a good person he would never consider someone so young as a girlfriend. When love is real, its worth waiting for. If he loved you, he would have waited until you had fully experienced your adolescence before securing you into an adult relationship. Sounds like a pedophile...and that's horrendous. I hope you get out of the situation quickly. :(
2006-12-17 04:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young and he's way too old. A 26 year old is looking for different things in his life right now, he could be looking for someone to settle down with, move in with, getting on with his career, or could want children with. Men are different like that. While your 15 all the things you could be thinking about are just either passing high school, wanting to drive, etc. You could be in love I wouldn't doubt that, but I don't think he is. And what he's doing is wrong, he should know better. You should be going out with kids your own age so there on your own level and wanting the same things.
2006-12-17 04:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by mtoWCS09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is way to old for you and all that he wants is to get down your pants and tell the other guys about you and you should not be worrying about a boyfriend this age or *** at the matter live your life and don't get in a hurry to have kids
I belive in you and dump that perfert good luck anyway and hangout with your friends and have a life and what did your mom think of this
im here to talk to you
2006-12-17 04:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by sneakysammy2296 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one you are way too young to be with a 26 year old. Forget about love at your age go out and have fun. It cannot be a serious relationship I am sure he is in it for other reasons.
Sorry but the truth hurts sometimes
2006-12-17 04:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were just there for looks than i think you've made a terrible mistake with him. he's old enough to know how to treat someone so there is no excuse for his behavior. if you're not able to clear up the things you both argue about than that could be the sign to break it off and try something new. you are a teen and he's an adult, having natural different interests. not to be crude, but he might feel nagged by your youth. think seriously about if this relationship is really a good one.
2006-12-17 04:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk, that sonds pretty shady! it very well could be that he just likes the way you look kus of the age difference. but then again guys can be jerks like that no matter how old they are. you can date a guy your same age and he'll STILL be like that. what it seems like is he probably doesnt respect you because your so young so he feels he doesnt have to care about how you feel. i say dump em kus itl just get worse and worse and worse. and you do not want what at the end of that relationship! kus its nothing but heartache and hurt. i know itll be hard kus you might like him soooo much but trust me, going out there and flirting is so much more fun!
2006-12-17 04:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by xbinary_dreamsx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him don't dress up. You should dress down and then see where that leaves you. I think that in any relationship it's hard to tell if they want you for you or your looks. My boyfriend is the same age as me and it still seems weird and I still don't know if he likes me for my looks or not.
2006-12-17 04:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by deppfreak6963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him!!!! God i keep on telling people the same thing, Tell him how you feel. If you cant tell him because your scared of him or your scared then he is not worth it. Communication, love and trust keep a relationship going if you two do not have these things then you are wasting your time!!!
2006-12-17 04:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by dasexyestcowindaworld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a 26 year old doing around a 15 year old, anyway?
2006-12-17 04:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Joe B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋