I have been friends with this guy gor 12 years, he always liked me but until about 5 yrs ago i had no instrest besides friends, then one night it totally hit me, i am head over heels for him, we both like eachother alot, its obvious, ppl tell me the way he looks at me when i am not looking, but he has been with his b**** gf for almost 2 yrs, and isnt showing any signs of breaking up with her, even though we "get together" often, why wont he just breakup with her and be with me?
2006-12-17 03:48:40 · 14 answers · asked by canadian_cutie_20_2002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows how i feel, i have told him, i asked him what he thought and he says he doesnt know, he doesnt care about his gf too much if he is sleeping with me
2006-12-17 03:55:32 · update #1
You need to let him know how you feel. He's been waiting for you to say something.
2006-12-17 03:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow, that's a tough situation. Have you and he talked about how you feel about one another? THat's the place to start if you haven't already. If you have, well, you might need to just be blunt and ask him why he's staying with her when the two of you are so good together.
One way or another sounds like you are in for a storm. Whatever happens, things will be as they will be. If he doesn't leave her, you have to try and move on. Don't spend your life holding a torch for the guy.
2006-12-17 03:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by markawfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you think of him as more than friends and then stop right there. If his feelings are so strong for you then he will be along shortly. If he is a good guy this will take a little bit of time because he will be trying to let her down gently and rushing him will bring out a side of him that you don't want to come out, that goes for anyone. Good luck and be patient.
2006-12-17 03:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he can be the center of the universe to both of you and he does not have to make a choice. As long as you continue to pal around with him, he had no reason to leave her if he wants to be with you, he only had to pick up the phone. Perhaps if you start going out with other men and making yourself less available, he might not take you for granted.
2006-12-17 03:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone has a bad case of the green eyed monster! You have to respect him and his girlfriend for now. When and if they do break up then step in. Don't try to break them up it will make you look very bad in his eyes. You had your chance before, maybe you'll have that chance again in the near future. Sooner than later I will cross my fingers for you.
2006-12-17 03:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. Would you want some women to come on to your man like you are coming on to him. If he wanted to have you for a girlfriend don't you think he knows what to do. Ask yourself why he don't quit her if she's such a b**** and be with you. What comes around goes around and I hate to be around when you fall in love with your man and some women hopes and do everything she can to break you all up. Its wrong he is in a relationship you need to respect him in everyway. If we would try loving ourselves and other women and stick together. Our men would have to be faithful because we would not give them a chance to be a playboy we would send them home to their wives and their girlfriends. Try focusing on a single guy just for you don't settle for less i bet you are a nice looking girl. Try to love and respect yourself and other women lets stick together as women lets all get along. Ask yourself why don't you have a single man or a relationship in your life evaluate your life. God bless you to have confidence in yourself and have happiness I know you deserve it. Be patient let the man find you in the mean time find yourself.
2006-12-17 04:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would need to take the time totalk to him, and say exactly ow you feel, and if you guys are getting "together" at all, then obviously something is going thru his ehad, talk to him in private, and explain your thoughts, and see if he agrees, and see hwo he feels.
See if he plans on being with her, or you. Dont stick around as a side project. let him know whats up, and see what happens.
2006-12-17 03:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Joel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't EVER think you are going to figure out a guys way of thinking,IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN!!!!!!! I would move on,personally! Sounds like he is just getting his cake and EATING it too,if ya know what I mean!!! Stop playing the victim for this idiot!!!
2006-12-17 03:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by spicy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on do not break up him and his girl for your own selfish reasons. There are a ton of guys out there go find one that is single.
2006-12-17 03:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like myself feel it is not rite 2 break up w/ some1 just cause they like some1 else. maybe he doesnt like u like that any more. u never noguys tend 2 think in different perspectives every day.
2006-12-17 03:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by snake eater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋