im married to one man and i love the other what can i do
2006-12-17 03:37:39 · 13 answers · asked by horsestud0800 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not happy being married to your husband and the other guy makes you happy then I would pick the one who makes you happy. But there is a couple of things you should think about. Like will this new guy make you just as happy as your husband did. Can he give you what your husband has. Can he provide for you. Is he a for sure thing. Is it really love or just lust. Do you really want to end your married on all the can he, will he, is he, can I. What will you lose and what would you gain. When I say Lose I mean other then your husband. Good Luck on whatever you decided. I'm sure you will make the right decision.
2006-12-17 03:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes about 3 years ago. I knew which one I needed to be with and I knew which one would be the safe option. Luckily I didn't have any kids but "the other guy" has 3 who now live with their mum (yes I did chose the other guy).
His marriage was not great and mine was abusive so we initially were each other's support until we realised how deep the feelings went.You know in your heart which one you want but it is having the courage to make the choice. If you are in this situation then it means your marriage is not great otherwise you would never entertained the idea of seeing another guy.
If you know he feels the same way you do and he is not going to leave you dangling if you do take the plunge then I say go for it. You only live once and you shouldn't stay in a loveless marriage because it is "better the devil you know". The only person who will end up hurt if you do is you.
2006-12-17 03:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can see where you are going on this question. People will fall for one guy, and then sooner or later you will fall for another guy. I would suggest picking one. What are you more interested into that type of guy. Is there something you see more than the other guy. Those are the questions you need to ask yourself. If you are unaware of this, you should give it a shot. Good luck
2006-12-17 03:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a name
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You don't love you're husband? You love another?
You can be divorced and get married another, but first think about
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Good luck
2006-12-17 04:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Alen J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly you would be able to desire to make up your ideas no be counted if it is your husband or this different guy because of the fact your husband can no longer submit with this very plenty longer and he will flow out searching for somebody else which will coach him love and in basic terms him love and don't think of he won't because of the fact he going to start lacking that loving feeling and he will locate it in somebody else! if he thinks you adore this different guy! so which you extra suitable come to a decision who you could stay without because of the fact love in basic terms comes as quickly as and in case you %. the incorrect one you would be ignored interior the chilly! So think of very of course or you could finally end up by ability of your self!
2016-12-11 10:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness..you sound like me..
I do get another opportunity, though..but not right away
iI sent him an xmas card and said take you for coffee but in the future if able..also sent my photo. He was at work when we met several months ago..I don't work with him..he moved far away..but that isn't a deterrment.
2006-12-17 03:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. I'm all for marriage and trying to make it work but I know it can be hard if you have feelings for someone else. It's ultimately up to you. Which one do you think will be there for you when you really need it? Your husband has already promised to be committed to you when he married you and you committed to him.
2006-12-17 03:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Utah. Marry them both.
2006-12-17 03:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by ebillar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very complicated...hmmmm...maybe you are just lacking of something...try to discover and think about it. if you think that your husband can give you that, why love another man? besides, you are a married woman...
2006-12-17 03:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the variety.
2006-12-17 03:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋