my cousin has a daughter now. and he was holding his daughter in his arms and feeding her the milk in the bottle. and he said something to his daughter that really upset me, he said, 'I'll always love you. well, unless you turn out to be gay.' can you believe he said this?
2006-12-17 03:11:25 · 15 answers · asked by Christ Follower 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
wow, who would say that to ther baby girl? that person doesnlt deserve to have a child, yiu should ALWAYS love your children, no magtter what. I can of course believe that someone would say that, but it is appalling.
2006-12-17 03:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by getshorty 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can believe it. I'm sure it wasn't about his daughter at all, but many guys have a hard time expressing love. It's easier to joke about it or turn it into something conditional so it doesn't 'reflect' on their manhood.
Just know that he does love her, probably more than he could ever express.
2006-12-17 11:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is wrong. You shouldn't judge anyone but the child just got here and he is already thinking like that, she hasn't had a chance to do anything. It could have been a joke, but you just don't say things like that. I feel sorry for the little girl when she gets older.
2006-12-17 11:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that out of peoples mouths also. Let him know that was rude, I'm sure he didn't mean it truthfully, he was just probably making a joke that turned out to be rude. Point out his behavior and take the opportunity to remind him of his obligations to her. God Bless
2006-12-17 11:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just very homophobic. I had a friend in high school when he came out his family disowned him. It does happen! So much for unconditional love...
2006-12-17 11:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Info 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How old is he?? If he is a young father, yes I can believe it. My mother says she would love me if I was gay(I am not) and just don't kiss in front of her.
2006-12-17 13:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a very nice thing to say to a child
2006-12-17 12:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Disgusting. Even more is how disturbing it is. This guy is obsessed with fear and hatred of homosexuals. He has real problem.
2006-12-17 12:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my godness that horribal he should love every one espically his on daugter who cares itf one day she's gay, thats who she wants to be,why would someone say that to their little girl?
2006-12-17 11:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No icant that is just wrong, if he was a good dad he should except who she wants to be, not being judgemental, that is just not right!
2006-12-17 11:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by angelina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋