i have been with this guy for 2 years altho we broke up we was fooling around and still is sometimes, I still love him so much but he has moved on and I can't I have tried but i just cant because i am comparing the others to him, he still comes to see me but he is still seeing other people but i dont want nobody but him, what to do? please help
2006-12-17 02:49:03 · 10 answers · asked by tanya t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tanya plz relax. It is very natural that you want only him and it is so b'coz you love him. But pz dont cpmpare others with him. Its wrong. Every individual has its own qualities and should not be compared with any other one. Talk with him about it, tell him how you feel, there is nothing wrong in talking about it. Let him know what are your feelings for him, let him know that you lovehim. When you will have a conversation with him you will feel much batter, If he would show any iinterest then it will be sure that he doesn't deserve you. He doesn't deserve your love. Talk with him, i know this thing will help you, you need a conversation with him.
Best of luck :)
and don'y worry too much about it, plz
2006-12-17 02:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stay single for awhile. Just go out and hang with your friends, you DON'T need a man. Trust me, I was in the same boat as you last week but I've made some new friends and I feel so much better now. I actually feel stupid that I put him on such a high pedestal.
I was only on love with the guy for a little more than a year but it still hurt...especially since that was the second time he broke my heart...
2006-12-17 10:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. Quit living in the past and start living in the future. I think you only want him because he didn't want you exclusively. By his cheating maybe you felt a little like what's wrong with me that he had to cheat. And now that he has moved on with ease you have the need to prove to yourself there wasn't anything wrong with you by holding on and hoping he would want you back. I don't know just a thought. But get over him already, why dwell and waste what precious time we have on this earth wanting someone who doesn't want you. I'd rather be with someone who wanted to be with me and be happy than sad. GL
2006-12-17 10:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have had that same problem before and i couldn't imagine myself with anybody else but him I thought we would get married have kids and every thing.. It seem to me that u are trying to make the relationship work let the other person do something and if it was suppose to be God will find some way for ya'll to be together!!
2006-12-17 10:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by krazykia1p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not into u so u r waisting ur time.get over it and a bette guy will come . think all the thing which is not good like u like he like to pick on nose, he snooze while sleep then u will 4get him. if u still make him think r u into him u might be in danger bcz that will be bigger chance u can take 'advantage' on u . so take care.
2006-12-17 10:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't you see he is only using you,you prooved to him that you are a fool so he is grabbing all the chances he can.pls save yourself and move on[he has],unless you don't want a life or you want to die an old maid,he is not coming back to you no matter how hard you try.
2006-12-17 10:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by bavo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!
i think u LOVE him but cant propose HIM again this is ma IDEA ! when he comes to see u or when he is in front of just rememmber the SWEET memories of PAST with him n then u will have courage to do SO.
2006-12-17 11:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need complete seperation its impossible for you to move on with him still hanging around hes holding you to faulse hopes and it not fair. plus if he was still into you he wouldnt be messing around with other people. dont be at his becking call. get out and show him your not hanging around for him you can do better.
2006-12-17 10:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by NICOLA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him....Don't let him come around anymore and start dating and living your life.
2006-12-17 10:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, and everything will be ok...
best of luck..
2006-12-17 10:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Angel Of Fallen Stars*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋