Did you hook up with that person because you were lonely or afraid to be alone. Or maybe because they were popular, good looking or financially secure? Did it last? Did you ever admit to the other person your true feelings?
2006-12-17 02:28:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't do it man. Let me in on a little secret about that.
When times get tough, you are going to need a h*ell of alot more than good looks or money to hold you together. Everyone experiences tough times.
If you are living in the here and now, that's one thing, but when you are looking for forever... that's quite another. How can you ever respect each other if that is the beginning.
2006-12-17 02:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met a woman that had two children and I bonded with them immediately. I eventually got used to her and married her. Her personality was terrible and she sat in a soft chair and drank beer for years at a time and accused me of cheating on her and attacked my character every time she had a chance and I eventually left her. Eleven years later.
I sure miss the kids, but she was abusive. I'm glad I lift her. My life is much better now.
2006-12-17 10:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i never did that. And if you are thinkinh like that, plz change your mind, It's not a good idea.
People sometimes do so, but at the end they find themself very unsatified, in many cases they start having a guilt feeling for their own. I know a few ppl who did like that, and they are not happy now, not at all. Such relationships have no meaning
2006-12-17 10:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did. I thought that I was in love, I really did, but it became apparent that I wasn't, by then it was too late. My ex-husband had an affair, that was after 3 and a half years, so I divorced him then.
2006-12-18 06:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way not worth it. I never have understood how some people think that by living with someone, they will somehow beable to change them.
2006-12-17 11:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married my daughter's sperm donor cause I got pregnant. Didnt last-just divorced him a week ago--he knows how I feel about him--SLUG.
2006-12-17 13:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answers to your questions, in order:
Yes.
Yes.
I wish!
No.
Yes.
I wouldn't recommend it and if there may potentially be children in the future, it's a REALLY bad idea.
2006-12-17 11:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kya Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but someone once moved in with me who was not in love with me. It did not last, and I was very hurt by it, but I learned my lesson.
2006-12-17 10:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
moved in with yes, because i need to see if i could love them , or if it was the fear of marriage. but i would never marry anyone i didn't love.
2006-12-17 10:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i have about a month ago and i thought it would work but didnt. i didnt want to hurt her feelings so never told her how i felt.
2006-12-17 10:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋