Can a 52 year old guy with two failed marriages and a failed engagement ever be OK for any woman?

Answer 1

Of course. Just has to be the right relationship. Never say never.

Answer 2

If everything else is good between the 2 of you, an age difference of 5 years is nothing to worry about. (although the hang-up itself may be). At 35, and given the fact that you already have 2 kids, you've probably got a good chance of conceiving again - unless you've had a serious health scare in the meantime, but obviously for a more definitive answer on that one you'd need to see a doctor. I'm 41 and have never had kids, but have just had all the tests done - the specialist I saw was reasonably opitimistic about my chances, so... I'd say YOU are looking pretty good on that score. Also, about the age difference again... my brother is 4 years younger than his wife and they've been together 14+ years and still going strong. (he was 26, and she 30 when they got together).

Answer 3

I don't think you could be OK for any woman, but I am sure than you can be more than OK for some and one in particular. Try taking a look at the kind of woman you want, and why, and then think about what kind of man she would want. How close do you come? Be honest with yourself.
Almost everyone who has been sucessful at getting what they want has not done it alone. If you don't know any people who have done what you want to do (have a long term satisfying relationship), then try some counseling and reading. It may sound corny, but check out Dr. Phil and Melody Beattie.
Think about what the women you have been with have told you- the reasons why it didn't work. Don't concentrate on what they did wrong, that gets you no where. You will start to see what issues have to be addressed.
Good luck. Don't give up hope. No one starts taking a look at themselves until they are tired of being where they are. And it is so true that if nothing changes, nothing changes.

Answer 4

The answer is yes, a bunch of failures isn't a bad thing, it just means that someone is just making mistakes and hopefully learning from it. This would mean that eventually you will have some success, unless you are finding the same type of person each time and unknowingly are ruining these relationships because you really, even if subconsciously don't like anything about women. I have know a few people that have had multiple attempts to find Mr. or Miss right and finally succeeded, keep on trying as long as the energy holds out!

Answer 5

I'm 33 and the man I'm going to marry is almost 52 and he has had a situation similar to your question, and yes i do believe he is right for me i guess it depends on how much they want the relationship to work, if one does not put in any effort into it then it won't last

Answer 6

I believe so. I've been around the block a few times and certainly know more now today than what I did yesterday.

With my new wisdom, I look forward to tomorrow and think today is pretty cool, and full of potential.

Look my friend take the attitude that it's okay to spend your last five bucks on a wallet, and you will win in whatever you want.

Answer 7

Yes. But, I'd have to say that he needs to start looking at different types of women. Obviously the women he's chosen in the past aren't working for him. Everyone here on earth has a perfect match for themselves. Sometimes we need to slow down and analyze our situations, surroundings, and people we allow in our lives. He'll find happiness and could possibly meet the woman of his dreams and be happy for the rest of his life. He just needs to slow down a bit and venture into unknown territory. He needs to learn from his past mistakes and take a leap. Good luck!

Answer 8

Absolutely yes! I'm 25 & I've had 1 failed marriage, a second is on the rocks & a failed engagement. You aren't alone.
(These bots are making me angry.)

Answer 9

Of course he can. The failed marriages are not necessarily your fault. You are still young with plenty of life to live. Use your past experiences to assist you in selecting your life mate.

Answer 10

was i ever engaged to you??? Sure you can be ok for a woman, but you may want to get some counseling on why your relationships don't work out....or why you pick the women you pick. You may be setting yourself up for failure in the women you choose.

Answer 11

Yes it would be ok. Have you taken the time to inventory your relationship and see why they failed? That way you won't fall in to the same patterns again.