there is this girl i like, and i think she likes me too, i however am afraid to tell her this and ask her out. i have tried many times but just couldn't.
any suggestions please!!
2006-12-17 01:54:15 · 12 answers · asked by bigbob33 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am mainly scared to ask her because we are really good friends and i dont want it to ruin our friendship.
2006-12-17 02:02:36 · update #1
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2006-12-17 01:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... You don't have to come right out and say "I like you". That should take some pressure off. :) Also, as nervous as you may feel when you ask her out, try to be confident. I remember being a young girl and being asked out. When a boy would come to me full of fear it really showed and made me nervous. Christmas is coming really soon. Why don't you go up to her and ask her if she'd help you go shopping for your mom or grandma. It's innocent, less pressure and the two of you could have a GREAT time with no expectations. Neither one of you will be worried about "the first kiss" and you can both be at ease. See if you two have a good time together. If so, continue to talk and then confess your liking for her. It's a smooth plan and you're likely to succeed in a real date in the near future. Good luck and God bless! I'll be thinking of you and praying for your happiness and success.
2006-12-17 10:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. I have the same problem except I'm a 10th grade girl. I would love if my best guy friend (whom I think likes me) would ask me out. It can be frustrating waiting. So just ask. If she says no, remember it may be awkward for a few days, but then things will get back to normal. Good luck.
2006-12-17 10:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a common knowledge that practicing helps overcome any fear. I would also ask you to analyze your fear and that will also help you understand the roots of your fear. Once you know what causes the fear it's very easy to work on.
2006-12-17 09:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, man! If you really like her or whatsoever, you got to tell her the truth, if she says no. Then you have an idea what you are doing.
2006-12-17 09:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to overcome any fear is to just do it. That goes for girls or skydiving. You just have to go for it.
2006-12-17 09:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start working... run.. go to gym everyday .. do lots of activities to keep your mind off her.. for a week.. then call her and you'll feel a lolt more fearless!
2006-12-17 09:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it. even if she says no, it's not the end of the world. but would you throw away the chance of her saying yes?! good luck!!!
2006-12-17 09:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slowly,and do not feel worried.
it's just a long way from loving her to getting her love,for she just wants time to feel your zealous love.
best wishes to you!
2006-12-17 10:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by hu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept the fact that she might say no, then go for it!
2006-12-17 09:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋