She was in these victoria's secret little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
His hand is on her in a way that is not "normal". Very inappropiately placed.
Should I wake him and tell him he should take her home?? Or should she stay and be a part of the discussion??
Will she be all embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out?? they are both 16
I am pretty sure they used protection cuz her gymnastics coach makes her take the pill because then she never misses practice b/c of cramps.
2006-12-17 01:51:51 · 12 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Does it mean they had sex if they were dressed the way they are?? Will she get all upset and start crying??(someone I know said yes)
2006-12-17 01:58:43 · update #1
Should I wake him and tell him to wake her or wake her and freak her out?? My hubby wants to put on some pjs, wake her and let her sleep in our bed and then he wants to climb in my sons bed and wait for him to wake up. Should he??
2006-12-17 02:08:44 · update #2
IT is your son, if you dissaprove sit him down and let him know and expailian why. But put yourself in his place, did you do things that were like that? Maybe you didn't get caught. I would think it is part of comming of age.
2006-12-17 01:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by jungle867 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
something like this happened to me recently and his mom came in and she just walked up to him and whispered in his ear to quietly wake me up, so we could talk. I was embarassed cuz I was practically naked, but nothing happened so I wasn't nervous. All we told her was that nothing past second happened and even offered her every detail of the night. He was a little mad at his mom, but he wasn't after she said she don't ming as long as we use protection. Just wait til they both wake up or do what his mom did. I would probably have been a ***** to her if she made a big noise or was yelling.
Also: I am a gymnast and I don't have to take the pill. I just train so hard that I lose my period from oct to march(gymnastics season). The only way her coach would tell her to take it would be if she missed practice every day she had her period.
Best of Luck!!
2006-12-17 05:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wake them up and have a talk with them, she WILL be embarrassed, being only in her scivvies and you're her bf's parent, and he will most likely be angry for causing a scene and embarrassing them both. It's not a guarantee that hey had sex, but it certainly leaves the possiblity open, doesn't it.
I'm contimplating here what I would do. The only way to minimize the embarrassment is to just wait until she wakes up and leaves and then have a talk with him. If you wake him up and tell him she has to leave, she's still going to have to walk out the door while you're in the house, knowing that you know. They're 16 and if they're being responsible and using protection, the situation isn't as bad as if they were younger and not.
The only time I got caught (and my mom caught us in the act), I was a senior in high school, she had just come home from work, thought I napping, opened my door to tell me she was home, I said "hi", she said "hi" and quickly shut the door and proceeded to get laundry rounded up to take to the laundromat. I LMAO, but my bf (now husband of 6 years) was FREAKED out. He thought for sure he was a dead man.
2006-12-17 02:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are in your house and they are dressed like that that is very disrespectful to you and your husband. You need to wake them up with the loudest noise humanly possible and tell them to put some clothes on at once. Then you need to sit them both down and tell them how disrespectful they are to you in your own home and let them know that their behavior is inappropriate. It doesn't matter if they had sex or not they should not be sleeping in your home with their underwear on.
2006-12-17 04:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them if you wake them he will be angry and wont speak calmly to you when you ask him to be careful and use protection if they are having sex. you need to speak to him like an adult whether you think he deserves it or not you are more likely to get honest answers that way. if you go nuts at him he wont tell you anything and one day he may really need to speak to you. stay calm let it run its course then let him know that you are there for him to talk to. the fact that they are nearly naked doesnt mean that they have had sex but they are certainly a bit comfortable being that naked with eachother so it probably wont be long.
2006-12-17 02:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by NICOLA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to have an open discussion with your son and the gf. The worst thing to happen to them is the ignorance of their parents. Talk to them both, they need you to.
2006-12-17 02:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tantrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom...I'm 16 and I'm normal. We feel comfortable in my home and I figured you would except this. If I was Gay, and I'm not nor do I disaprove of others who are...how would you react ? Come on Mom...We are sleeping ..we are safe..you know where we are. Good night Mom...see you in the morning....I Love You.
2006-12-17 02:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by R W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them now. If you don't you say it's ok. It's not respectfull. If you didn't already this would be the time to lay down rules that sex & nakedness is not appropriate in you house or your presence.
2006-12-17 01:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every child learns from his parents. You think first, what you do? If you think that the situation, described by you, is not acceptable to you, you practise first.
2006-12-17 02:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by akandaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would throw him out and take his place.
2006-12-17 01:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by Warren Bennett 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋