i am in love with a girl.(25 years old)she told me about the bitter and her past love affairs.she had so many affairs i think,after hearing that am havin a little doubt on her when shes not with me.so please help me to find a solution to put an end to this doubt.we are planning to get married next year.will this (my doubt)affect our family life.
2006-12-17 01:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
yes, it will. unless she can do something about it to release those feelings to the right person. the pressure is still in her mind and unconsciously affect her and perhaps your relationship.
2006-12-17 01:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) If you're marrying her you MUST trust her. If not, DON'T do it!
2) Why did she confide in you? Because she trusts you? Or was it bragging? You must be sure.
3) People do change. Maybe she was in a wild phaze that is over.
If you don't feel complete and certain that moving forward (especially into something as serious as marriage) is the right thing to do, then why would you do it? Life isn's supposed to be daily doubt and stress. Make a smart choice at the appropriate time. Think it through before your marriage becomes another statistic. Help keep divorce rates down.
2006-12-17 10:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her sometime to forget about those affairs . Ask her if she is ready to start a new serious relation. IF she is ready and you dont have any problem just forget about the past and start a bright future..... God bless you .Ma wishes always for you both.
2006-12-17 15:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know that it will effect your marriage. I think you are already having second thoughts about marrying this girl. You can't change her past. It's a lot easier to walk away before the wedding than after wards.
2006-12-17 10:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you love her you've got to trust her, maybe she told you the story cause she wants you to know that she regrets everything that happened to her before and she wants to start a better life with you.. try to talk to her more and hear what she has to say.. also you ask her is she really is serious this time cause you have plans for her..
2006-12-17 09:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by autopilot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋