I really love my boyfriend but, I had fallen really hard for my last boyfriend and found out he was a liar and cheat, however we did have the most passionate and great sex I have ever had. No one else has ever come close to satisfying me the way he did. My boyfriend now is a great person but I think about the ex sometimes during sex, and am not as fulfilled as I was with the other one sexually, to bad he was such a jerk. How do I get past this? I have told him things to do and how I like things but sometimes I wish I could just have my ex back because our sex life was so good. I have not had it as good with anyone since he has been gone and I fear I will not totally let go of him in my heart because of the intimacy and mind shattering sex life we used to have, I have felt sexually unfulfilled since we broke up, but I cant deal with not being able to trust him either, I think I will always love the ex more, and it makes me mad, because I dont want to, Ever been there?
2006-12-17 01:37:04 · 3 answers · asked by jeannie64 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st let me ask u one thing , do u love ur present bf enough to be able to live without sexually satisfied with him? i think u r too hot and difficult to be satisfied . so u should get ur priorities right . most of the times u dont get everything u want in life. u have to sacrifice some things to obtain others .
once u get ur priorities u will learn to forget ur past and live in present .
2006-12-17 02:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you reacting in the present to something from your past that isn't fully resolved? In order to find the love that you deserve, you have to heal old wounds. Cultivate detachment when viewing your romantic history ,and yes been there done that....
2006-12-17 02:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've been there. You can't replace him. Just learn to live with what comes your way. Good luck;
2006-12-17 01:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋