there are two really nice and cute guys that want to go out with me............what in the world should i do!!!plz plz help me!!!
2006-12-17 01:36:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first answer is one you will not like.
I would first guess you are not mature enough to date since you are incapable of resolving this simple problem.
Therefore, the answer is simple. If you like them both, date them both. The key ingredient is "integrity". You are under no obligation to date just ONE person. You have the right to date more than one but as I stated...integrity. What does that mean? It means...be honest about it. If by chance one person you are dating ask if you are dating anyone else you say yes. AGAIN, you are under no obligation to disclose any further details of your other dates UNLESS you plan on engaging in sexual excounters with these dates. THEN you ARE OBLIGATED to disclose that info since the potential of diseases arise and they have the right to know of the risks.
A person who truly wants to be with you will hang in there even with other dates. If they don't, then they aren't the one for you. You can also decide if you want to pick one only or move on to more until you find someone whom you share more interests with.
2006-12-17 01:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by S H 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all get to know them better..then after a lil bit sit down and right all the good things about 1 guy and all the good things about the 2nd guy..then right down all the bad things about them.Once your finished pick which one you could be with and you can just ignore all his bad parts about him!!
Hope I Helped!
Good Luck!! ;)
2006-12-17 09:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with them. I would pick different days because the logistics of squeezing in two dates in one evening would be daunting.
2006-12-17 09:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky Lenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,go out with both guys but, in different days so well you know,do it in the same place then see who you like more
(GOOD LUCK)
2006-12-17 09:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rwhz199 is right, go out with both of them, then decide which one u like better, then the one u didnt' like tll him that u cant c him anymore(datewise), because u have a bf, and THAT will SHUT HIM UP lol
hope i could hlp
ALi
2006-12-17 09:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sexi-Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date with both, then decide who ya like.
2006-12-17 09:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the third guy instead!
2006-12-17 09:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go out with both of them and then decide with who you should continue dating
but dont have sex until you decide and never tell them you were checking them before..hehe
good look
2006-12-17 10:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with both of them at the same time
2006-12-17 09:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Crackerass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with them.....its not brain surgery
2006-12-17 09:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by Deleted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋