What should one do if there bofriend was cheating on her?

Question

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months and a few days and i just found out he has been cheating on me with one of my good friends
so wat should i do

Answer 1

Chastity device... will solve all of your issues. They make plastic ones for men.

Answer 2

There are any number of possibilities. The condoms could have belonged to your boyfriend, his brother ... or, if he is still living at home, even his parents. Yes, older people have sex too! The important thing is not to jump to conclusions and not to accuse him, but if you are concerned, then you are best to raise the issue with him. Communication is key to any relationship. One thing, though: trust is also vital in a relationship. If you remain doubtful after talking to him and do not believe he is telling you the truth, or simply know within yourself that you don't trust him, then don't waste your time. Move on. On another matter, do not allow him to pressure you into sex. If he is a good guy, respectful and actually cares about you - or even loves you - he will not try to force your relationship to move forward at a pace greater than you are comfortable.

Answer 3

You should firstly accept that it's not your fault !
Secondly you should be completely honest about your feelings to them and mostly to yourself.Tell him how he hurt you and your friend too.But remember to get all your facts straight Cause you never know if some jealous friend is trying to break you two up.
After the confrontation the healing begins, go out and remind yourself that there was a life before your boyfriend and there sure as hell will be one after him.

Answer 4

Hi if i found out my g/f cheated on me i would dump her ***. You know right then and there that there is no trust in the relationship. And obviously when your not with him hes with your good friend or trying to flirt with another girl. Awhile back i found my g/f cheating on me.

Answer 5

That's going to depend on whether or not this is a fifth grade relationship and by "cheating" you mean holding hands on the playground.

If that's the case, you're going to move on with your life.

If you're grown-ups, or as close as anyone on here gets, and he is plowing your friend. Then you're probably going to want to cut his nuts off and stab your best friend in the thigh with a steak knife.

But it was only two months, it wasn't love.

Answer 6

sorry sweetie, get rid of him. you don't deserve to love someone that won't love you back. i cheated on someone once and he got rid of me which is exactly what i would want or expect of someone. it's a mean thing to do and the cheater should be punished in some way.

and it may seem like it will be hard to get over him, but guess what? you never meant to him what he means to you, that's how he could do such a thing. thats a harsh thing to say but i hope you see that you deserve better.

haley

Answer 7

if u are not stack sure of the situation or what u saw, pretend as if nothing happened in order not to hurt ur feelings or that of his. But if ur sure that his truely cheating on u, congratulate him and wish him the best of luck, go about ur every day activity. if he truely is ur mr. right, he will definitely come begging, crawling on his knees to have u back.

Answer 8

SOOO DUMP HIS @$$, he deserves it, if he cant be truthful to u, then there's nothin there, as i alwasy say, "if u dont have Love, Trust, Honesty, and Faith, then there is nothing left but Resentment ". SO ya it dont matter how much u like him, if he aint honest, he cant b ur honey, simple as that!
Hope I could Help
Ali

Answer 9

Sigh... i guess u feel like u wanna give him a chance, but DON'T. If he does it once, and gets away with it, he'll do it again.
BE STRONG, there will be better men out there.

Answer 10

Cheat on him