in my case it is he broke up first n when i was behind him to get him back he was going away.. but now two months later when i have completely lost hope on him and forgotten him he is coming back to me?? y is this i dont understand this nature of guys
2006-12-17 01:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by ROCK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have only one advice.You should never give a second chance to a person that rejected you before.No matter what the circumstances are,you should not let them capture your heart again.Welcoming them back,is like welcoming rejection(pain) back into your life.Some guys are just clueless.At one stage they devote themselves completely to thier priorities by ignoring those who truely love them.Then,they realise that they need love and will prioratise it.They will be back to thier loved one.At this stage,they got it back easily coz they know that we girls are emotionally connected and wil be waiting for them to be back.This is where it gets complicated,they have us easily without any effort or thrill of chase.They get bored of us again coz we have made ourselves soo easily accessible.They will reject us again.This cycle will just continue.
My honest suggestion to not let him make a comeback.
2006-12-17 01:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't want to see you with anyone else. He may be sincere in wanting you back. But then again since you stopped chasing him he may have seen the possibility that you could be seeing someone else and didn't like it. Make your decision wisely if your thinking about being with him again because if he was a butt wipe before it's only a matter of time before he becomes a butt wipe again.
good luck!
2006-12-17 09:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when girls go back to their ex, it's normal as she still loves him. but if the vice versa happens, it's usually cos the guy can't find someone better and is looking for a substitute
2006-12-17 09:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he was unabale to find someone else who was willing to take his crap. He is settling for you. Do you want to be second, third or fourth choice? Do you want to be the settlement of someone else's failure? I suggest you run....and fast. Find someone who respects you and loves you for YOU.
2006-12-17 09:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just can't forget of you, you must have done something right, maybe he was exploring some other posibilities, but couldn't find anyone better than you. So be Glad.
2006-12-17 09:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are allowing him to do this. So put a stop to it and move on with your life. He is only going to do what you allow him to do. God bless****
2006-12-17 09:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cz guys r DOGS, they dont want to let g/f slip from their hands ;-)
2006-12-17 09:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by like_2b_frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋