Is there any formula to reduce the rejection when it comes to dance with a girl? U have the same experience?

Question

In most cases I have seen when you keep dancing with girls even when you know them so good (not as close as a girlfriend but as a friend) they leave u on the dance floor. (Sometimes they tell you when they leave and sometimes not)
Before they leave you can know it easily from their expression if they are bored or don’t want to stay there with u.

Personally I feel bad when always girls should leave (why they should decide first?), I ask myself why not me first?!

What could I do?
going to many girls and try to dance with them and separate them a little from their groups, dance with them with enough eye contact, take their hands and go further if they feel comfortable and exactly when I feel that the girl is bored or going to leave, I leave her first. The main point here is to be able to predict the girls’ decision by reading her face.

Advantage: When u leave first you don’t feel rejected ur self-esteem remains high all the time and u go to more girls. comments?

Answer 1

Ok, first off, you need to wacth the females in the club, pay attention to how they act to see if there is a certain female among them that you would go for. Second check her out for a awhile, especially if she's with a group cause some women tend to let the group dictate who they should or shouldn't dance with. Next, check out her body lauguage and how she talks to her friends. If she's at the bar, introduce yourself, offer to buy her a drink and go from there. If she says yes and continue to conversate with you then go from there, and watch what you say and how you say things around and to her. If she's on the dance floor, ask her can you dance with her.
Now, sometimes they will dance with you right away or they'll tell you to wait til the next song. While you're talkin to her, check out her eye contact and see if she's down or just pulling your chain.
Maybe she just wanted to dance a certain song with friends. When the next song comes on, approach her and take her on the dance floor. Don't always be so quick to feel a female up, especially in the club, let your judgment help in deciding when the time is right for that.
If things go well, get her number from her and ask to call her later. Now, if she's asks you where are you going after the club then things might be in your best favor; otherwise, take the number and call her when you get a chance and go from there.

Now, about you leaving the club first to get back at a female, that only makes you feel stupid cause you wished you had a chance with her now you going home mad. Don't try to make a female feel like a fool cause, they tend to do a better job at making us feel that way then we would them.
Going on to other females is an option if the female you trying to hook up with is not cooperating with you. Another thing, don't try to play two and three females in the club cause, they are watching you even if you think they aren't. Think wisely and not emotionally, emotions can leave you hurt most of the time.

Answer 2

As far as im concerned, there isn't one, but i may b wrong. One way that my bf uses, is that if he see's im gettin bored, he pulls me in closer, or he starts up a conversation, on things like if im having fun or not and stuff. And leaving the girls isn't v. good, cuz then no matter how well u know them, they may still end up upset with you and its not good for u to have too many peopl upset with you at one time, also, girls REALLY hate being left on the dance floor, even if they know they were gunna leave u there anyways. So next time strick up a convo, or pull them closer.
That's my advice,
Hope i could Help
Ali

Answer 3

I think you are asking the wrong females. Women love men with good self esteem but you don't get good self esteem by leaving her on the dance floor and walking away. Maybe you need to work on conversation while your dancing so she doesn't get bored.

Answer 4

u rvery very very very correct thanx for da advise i hope it would help me..!!!