I mean whats the best approach and how can i overcome my fear.
2006-12-17 00:43:10 · 10 answers · asked by worldcomingtoanend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
where is it? if you have met her in a bar, order yourself a drink, and ask whats shes having on you. that way, she knows you're interested, and you can get talking over a drink. if you work with her, ask to borrow something workish and get talking that way. whereever it is, just make eye contact, let her know you're interested. what have you got to lose? x
2006-12-17 01:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this right... You saw a pretty girl, you think she's cute, you're in love? I think you're nuts! You don't even know this girl. Remember the old saying, "no matter how beutiful she is, someone, somewhere is tired of her sh_t"
As far as overcoming your fear, there's only one way. Just do it. There's no secret formula for asking a girl out. You just say, "hey, wanna go out for dinner and a movie?" or what ever. After you do it a few times, it gets easier and easier.
2006-12-17 00:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you've seen this pretty girl, and you fall in love with her just like that? I bet, if any guy sees her, they'll be just like you, falling for her just like that *snaps fingers*. And wad if she has a boyfriend? Have you ever thought of that? Anyhoo, thats the bad part.
Here's the good part. You've seen this pretty girl, and your afraid to approach her? Well, for starters, SMILE! DUH! then if she smiles back at you, its a good sign. Then try getting in a conversation with her. You know, the usual, like "Hi, how you've been", that kinda stuff, and if things are going good, maybe you'll have a chance. ^.^
Overcoming your fear? Just be who you are, don't act like somebody else. And c'mon, she's just a girl, I know she's pretty and all, but still she's just a girl.
2006-12-17 01:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by samantha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A smile, is a great start, but if she is shy like you, you might have to start a conversation with her. The smile won't be enough. Try to observe her closely and check what she has interest on, than used it as a subject of your approach.
2006-12-17 00:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your leg in a false cast or just wrap good in tape, then get a set of crutches from thrift store cheap, go near her and fall, she will come to your aide. Have her take you back to your place as your too shook up to drive. have soft music playing at house with wine on ice. dance with her then kiss her gently on her neck. move her in and live miserably the rest of your life.
2006-12-17 00:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being such a jelly fish - woman want a man in her life.
walk up to her and tell her you are interested, and ifshe cannot cook tell her you will hold it against her - you'll evenhelp to find her a cooking teaher.
she'll laugh and you'll get your girl.
if not **** her - she was not the right for you anyway.
2006-12-17 00:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act real cool and go up to her and say 'heyy'. then let the convo start from there. if u blank and dun have a topic to start with, tell bout the weather (always a gd one ;D)
2006-12-17 01:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by lil miss sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her say hi, be confident, charming, witty... haha well just be yourself and be friendly, dont come on too strong though cos she might get scared!
2006-12-17 00:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking at what her interests may be and then try to get her to talk about it. Not only will you see her excitement but you will automatically have her regard.
2006-12-17 00:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile at her then talk to her... it's nice when people talk to you...
2006-12-17 00:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by nins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋