i like this one boy and i asked him out then my friend who HAD him for a boyfriend asked him out again after she said i could have him. he's my friend but he crushed my heart. he was going to say yes to me but after his dream girl (the one that dumped him) asked him out again so he crushed my heart. what should i do move on or like him until he breaks up with her? Happy Holidays Everyone!!
Hmgirl10
2006-12-17 00:40:31 · 11 answers · asked by Hmgirl10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, move on. Its not worth it. Dont wait around for an a$$. Its his lost. Be confidence and trust me, there are way better guys out there for u. This one guy isnt even worth thinking or talking about, let alone waiting for. You can already see how stupid he is to fall for a dream girl dumps him which will dump him anytime soon again after she set her eyes on another guy. People like this are just plain stupid. You are way better for him. So be happy, enjoy life, the right one will come.
Happy holidays to u. =)
2006-12-17 00:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If I were you, I would follow my heart. What does your heart say? And try talking to the girl(your friend), just talk. And this guy, the guy that crushed your heart? Why go out with him? If he truly likes you, he wont go back with his 'ex' right? So just move on girl, there are plenty more guys out there.
2006-12-17 00:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by samantha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say show some dignity...and self respect as a girl...
show your inner strength, the tough side that'll feel strong inside...
its not easy, but its worth the trouble, you can cry at home and pore it all out in a diary or a painting... but in front of them, don't show your affected, show you have some pride... he didn't choose you because he wasn't worth it for you... trust where your life is bringing you... its OK to talk to a best friend, about your disappointment...but don't carry it all away...
i say forget HIM, and go for someone who cares and respect you more...not just himself...
you'll feel good, to know that even if he disappointed you, he cant bring your pride down, because that's what you really have...
and a bout your friend, it depends on you...maybe you can still hang out but show how firm and how much you have self respect for yourself...your not being enemies, your being colleagues...more cautious of each other...
2006-12-17 00:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's in love..........with her...............so dont waste your time doing something that will only break your heart in the long run and hurt worse than it will now, to just go on with your life. Actually, by not being so eager any more to go out with him, mite make him want to chase you instead. But as for now, she has "let him go" but cant stand the thought of someone else having him so she uses his desire for her to her advantage. as long as he takes that, you could never trust him. do yourself a favor, there are so many, so many, so many to chose from. take your time, one that wants only you will come along.
2006-12-17 00:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hoo... this is a toughie. I don't think the issue here is with the guy... I think it's with your friend. She TOLD you you could have him, and yet she went behind your back and asked him out anyway. (On this subject, it is just plain not a good idea to get with a guy your friend used to date.) Find a new guy... and some new friends.
2006-12-17 00:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on as it appears you were his second choice. Also dump the girlfriend!
2006-12-17 00:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were in your position, i'd probably have a gd cry and eat coffee icecream. but maybe just talk to them (id actually try to beat them up xDD) but ur choice. ooh!!! maybe go to a spa place and treat urself to a manicure and pedicure, i just got one yesterday and they had a massaging chair...MMMMM....
2006-12-17 01:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by lil miss sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she'l do that to u then shes not ur friend and u should try to move on from both of them. and try to find someone else
2006-12-17 00:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by shawnsgirl91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight fight fight.. kick her a*ss .. Oh it's hard being a teenager in love. Believe me, you will both be over this guy so quick it's not even worth reading the answers.
2006-12-17 00:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 02:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋